I have an issue

Okay.
This is my first time doing this, so dont be an ass.

I get attached to girls way to easily. If I talk to them once and the conversation doesn't fall through i get a crush on them. Its hard to control and I dont understand it. I have had girlfriends, and they really love me, they say im sweet, despite my appearance. So I dont have girl issues, its an issue at become attached to easily.

For example, theres a girl at my school, her name is M, (thats just what ill call her)
We are in the same Spanish class, and I have always liked her a little. But we just exchange looks every now and then, and I begin to believe she has a crush on me, so I get a crush on her. And then a boy asked her out in the class, and the next day I was fantasizing about hurting hem.

Is this normal, I mean, for my age?

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Based on 66 votes (52 yes)
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  • EccentricWeird

    It's not "rape", it's just "surprise, non-consensual sex". Try it, fucktard, and don't whine here.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    It's normal at every age.

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  • Its normal man. Ive had fantasies about hurting the people that took my crush, and also protecting my crush from them. Its just a fantasy, just dont go whailing on dudes without a good ass reason.

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  • besides the hurting him thing, yes it is completely normal

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  • geekpost

    I think your situation is normal.

    In many instances, infatuation, anger and obsession are manifested through misconceptions in attributes. For example, someone says something, or dresses a certain way; people interprets their sense of this person and attaches attributes to them. They are nice, they are reliable etc. And feelings stems from these assumptions: I like people who are reliable and nice. etc.
    Maybe allow yourself more time to get to know these girls before falling so hard for them?

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  • Ken2234

    "despite my appearance" lmao

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  • thatredsheep

    wow, um i have the same problem and i like a girl in my Spanish class whose middle name is Marie. btw i have found that if you just try to avoid the current "crush" then it goes away.

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  • fallandmiss

    WTF, ChrisUFC? Girls don't know what they want? Sexist much?
    Dude, you're normal. Just don't start making scrapbooks with pieces of hair and used tissues, etc. and I think you'll be fine. Just take it easy.

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  • celtdragon

    its normal to feel as pain at losing a girl you are interested in and there is no way of stopping that (unless you want to be an old bitter bachelor). the desires to hurt people is something that you need to learn to control (if you believe in God, ask him for help). if you are part of another religion, talk to your priest or equivalent.

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  • GreyScale

    Nothing to worry about. As long as you don't go and cheat on a girlfriend or something, everything is good.

    I would be cautious, though, because this opens you up to a world of emotional pain.

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  • wereinheaven

    Masturbate ur feelings away when it comes to girls, if not masturate then just f**k her until u get over it. Or maybe u can have the balls to go up to her and a- ask her out or b- ask to f**k her. U might get lucky and she might go for both if not it is worth a try.

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  • lokitehwolf

    yeh thats normal....
    like me and you have different sexual
    preferences but i can relate to that...
    just all i have to say ish good luck.. and hopfully you'll settle down with a good gal

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  • maligium

    when you meet her eyes do she look at you lingerely.
    do you sometimes bump each for no apparent reason.
    when she is with people,does she brush her hair or giggle when you walk on by.
    she hates your lack of guts to approach her.
    approach her,she's as nervous as you.

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  • lalalala123

    "they say im sweet, despite my appearance"

    thats a bit harsh xx

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  • ElChe

    masturbate, ull get over it like THAT

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  • i'm gonna be an ass.....
    i have an issue too, of SHONEN JUMP!!!!BITCH!!!

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  • Yeah you are just showing sighns of being a serial killer one day thats all, are you sure she wasnt looking at you because she was thinking "what the hell does this kid keep looking at me for?" No but seriously girls dont know what they want they will like you one day and not the next so dont open your self up to heart break by getting so attached take them has they come and dont worry about it.

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    • Ironic_Ivory

      Okay that was evil then nice. Thank though, that was kinda helpful.

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  • deric

    Yes I think so.

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  • IsitAbnormal

    You are ugly.

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