I have a six inch penis yet ever person i have fucked say it hurts

I know for a fact six inches is average. so why is it that every person I have fucked say it hurts when I fuck them?
They always tell me to take it slow and I do but at certain points they want me to stop. They will give me blowjobs which is fine at least I get to finish but its annoying as hell.

I asked someone I fucked recently why she wanted me to stop after awhile. She said it was the girth that my dick was thick and it hurt when I was fucking her. I dont think my dick is that thick.

Is this normal? Is there a way to fuck someone and not have this problem?

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  • Boojum

    When you say every woman you've had sex with complains about this, how many women are you talking about? Two out of two women could just be unfortunate chance; fifty out of fifty would definitely signify something.

    And when you say you're thick, exactly what sort of circumference are you talking about? Large banana thick? Red Bull can thick? Coke can thick?

    The vagina is obviously capable of stretching enough to allow an infant to pass through it, so I think it's unlikely that it's your thickness per se that's the issue.

    You say in a reply that you "don't usually just jump in". The implication there is that you sometimes do just that. If a guy forces his chunky, totally rigid penis into a vagina that's not well-lubricated, this can cause micro-abrasions or even tears at the vaginal entrance. The woman might not notice these at first - particularly if she's aroused - or the discomfort might be so minor she can deal with it, but if sex goes on for a while, then the irritation of the tiny scrapes and cuts can become painful. Rapid thrusting, the woman not producing much vaginal moisture for some reason (I assume lube isn't part of your normal routine), and sex that goes on for a long time can all make this more of a problem.

    There's no reason at all why penetrative sex can't go on for literally hours if a couple want to do that. But this requires the woman's vagina to be well-lubricated, her to be in the right mental place because she's comfortable with the setting and seriously into the guy, and the guy to be sufficiently tuned-in to her to figure out what she needs to stay in that place.

    Research has found that only around a fifth of women are capable of reaching orgasm through PIV thrusting alone. If a guy climbs onboard in boring old missionary position and starts pounding away, the odds are that the woman is not going to get the stimulation of her clitoris that she needs to really enjoy the sex, she'll start to dry out, and pretty soon things will get uncomfortable. Researchers have also found that the glans of the human penis is very efficient at removing moisture from the vagina. (The hypothesis is that this unique shape evolved because it's very good at removing the semen of competing males from a vagina.) If the head of your penis is sufficiently large to press snugly against the walls of a typical vagina, this could be contributing to the problem the women have had with you.

    I know virtually nothing about your sexual technique, but I'd suggest that you consider the following. First, always make sure that the woman you're with has at least one orgasm before you move on to PIV sex. Second, never assume that a woman enjoys thrusting as much as you do. Some women are seriously into PIV sex, but quite a few consider it something they just have to deal with because men like it. For the vast majority of women, clitoral stimulation is where it's at, and PIV sex doesn't give them that because their clitoris is a little too far from their vaginal opening for thrusting to have much effect on the clitoris. It is sometimes possible for both the guy and woman to get what they need if they adjust their position and movements so that thrusting is combined with the guy's pelvic bone stroking against the clitoris, but you can't count on this always working.

    Finally, if you believe - as many do - that dick-in-pussy is the only "real" sex, you might try to shift your perception. I've always hugely enjoyed PIV sex, and since I'm a guy, I can fully understand you being annoyed by the women who have rejected your dick and implicitly criticised your sexual technique. But learning to see PIV sex as just the cherry on top of a lot of very enjoyable messing around that comes before might make it a lot better for you and for the woman you're with.

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  • GaelicPotato

    You're fucking up, that's why.

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    • charli.m

      This. I only came here to say he's clearly doing it wrong.

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    • How am I doing it wrong?

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      • GaelicPotato

        In every single possible way. I'd just give up if I were you. :)

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        • Considering people come back for more I dont see why I should give up. I am just annoyed that they end up complaining that it hurts at a certain point. I think to myself "the hell we used a lot of lube this time why are you acting like I have a monster dick six inches is normal."

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          • GaelicPotato

            Dude, you're obviously doing something wrong. Take some classes or something.

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  • Tommythecaty

    Well stop poking them in the eye with it and do it properly.

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    • 😆😂🤣

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  • How wide is it?

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    • They say its really thick I dont know what to make of that it just looks normal to me.

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  • LloydAsher

    Welcome to the I dont have a 9 inch dick, but wreck pussies by my girth club.

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  • Iluvcox

    with six little inches, you could fuck me to completion and I would not ask you to stop then when you are finished I would beg you to pull it out of my boipoussy and shove it down my throat so I could clean you up real good and suck you dry

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    • What is six inches big for gay people?

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      • Iluvcox

        well my favorite dildo is called the "cockasaurus"...google it, it has 11 inches of fat meaty shaft with 7.25 inches of girth and I grind on it vigorously while playing with my nipples until my tiny sissy clitty erupts all over my face and BTW, I could easily take bigger

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        • Damn you sound freaky. Are you a femboy?

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          • Iluvcox

            yes, kinda...lean more toward sissy, I love being plugged and wearing chastity device along with sexy panties and pink fingernail polish

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    is it 6 inches long and as big around as a pringles can?

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    • Its normal as far as I can tell not to big or to small. I clearly dont have a pencil dick though.

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  • Somenormie

    Maybe its your erection.

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  • buzzybimaybe

    how thick?/

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  • Maybe you're not giving them time to open up? Foreplay gets girls ready in many more ways than one

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    • I love foreplay its a great way to build things up. I dont usually just jump in so I doubt its a problem of opening up.

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      • ibrokemyds

        Does it feel like you’re feeding a particularly hungry horse when you stick your hand down there? If not then you haven’t done enough foreplay. Also the length of the vagina canal varies both from woman to woman and at different times of the cycle. A woman with a deep vaginal canal mid ovulation can have a vagina that’s 8 inches deep, while a woman with a small vagina on a non-fertile day can have a vagina as small as 2 inches. It really just depends on the woman.

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  • fatok

    If they complain you should roll them over and give it to them up the ass. They won't complain about fucking their pussy anymore.

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    • Unless they ask for it I am not going to do that.

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  • my_life_my_way

    If they’re virgins then it’s normal, the first time is supposed to hurt for girls

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    • charli.m

      No it's not.

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    • RoseIsabella

      It didn't hurt when I lost my virginity, and I'm glad it didn't. It's not worth doing if it hurts!

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    • Two of them were all the other ones not so much. One of them even said I wasn't the biggest she had.

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  • a-curious-bunny

    Sounds like my ex. Everytime ge fingered me it hurt like hell. He did the cut his nails way to short thing and they were like fucking razorblades in me. He'd get so annoyed saying he doesn't have nails but it's like dude you cut them to short and they get sharp! Like he litterly made me bleed every single time. Yet this other guy I've been with can fuvk me without lube and no bleeding. I think its pretty obvious where that problem lied. So idk maybe listen to them?

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    • Boojum

      It sounds like your ex was a macho idiot who hacked away at his nails with a Bowie knife or something.

      I keep my fingernails trimmed short, but I know how to use a nail-file, and once I've rounded the edges off with that, I have a habit of buffing the edges on my jeans.

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      • a-curious-bunny

        Yea pretty much sums him right up.

        One example. I love ham. I mean I freaking love it. So my ex and I was looking at hams and he went straight for the spiral cuts. I was dude lets get one of these spiral cut sucks. And yea he got very rude. My boss was showing me a ham my job offers and I was like oh thank God its not spiral cut and he was like yea that shit fucking sucks and he's a ghetto ass man from fucking Chicago. Sp its like wtf was wrong with my ex.

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