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I go over to my friend's house quite a bit when she's home from college after nights out and such, and I have the biggest crush on her dad - I have since I was fourteen. He has an amazing taste in movies, TV, music, he's really into art like me and ugh, he's awesome. He's also at least 50 and the father of a friend of mine. Is this weird?
Crushes are fine and very normal. Acting on them can result in an experience that's truly amazing, or feeling profoundly disappointed and disillusioned, or it turning out to be an event that utterly shatters your life and the lives of many others.
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Have had sex with him? If you did it might have made you feel closer to him than otherwise.
Many years back I ended up getting oral from a friend's Mom. I didn't feel bad at all, laughed about it actually and then it got back to my friend. He wasn't a good friend, but still. I can't tell you how badly I let the guy down and how humiliated the guy felt. Not to mention how it damaged he and his Mom's relationship for some time.
We are all ok with it now. Actually haven't seen or talked to him in a number of years, but before that we hung out with our group of friends and all seemed ok.
There's plenty of fish in the sea, plenty of other people you can have sex with. I should have realized that at the time.
I hate always thinking "what if it was your Mom", but I think in that case I would have passed on a one time sex act.
Think of your friend and ask yourself if it's worth it.
yes, it's normal though. Go figure.
As it has been said above, it's normal. Now, if you're underage, don't do it. If you're not, think about these things:
Is your friendship less important than this? (because you'll lose it)
Do you want a relationship? (You won't get one, especially if he's married)
Are you ready to accept that there's a +90% chance to get rejected? (Especially if he's married)
Do you know what you want from this? (the hobbies or activities are totally unrelated to romance and you can be very disappointed to find this out after doing something)
If he's married, he'll most likely reject you. If he doesn't, he'll abuse you like he abuses his wife.
If he's single, there's still a big chance to get rejected. If it doesn't happen, you'll probably only get a temporary relationship.
Finally: very unlikely and won't be what you think it is.
Advice: Not a good option, but not absolutely impossible.
Go for it.
Older guys know what they are doing.
Take their time.
And are usually experienced enough to know how to please a woman.
Pretty sure it would make his day too.
Don't expect or think he'll leave his wife etc for you.
But, a night or several does no harm.
Normal yes. Many young girls are attracted to older men. Don't act on it though, as if you are still under age you can get him in a lot of trouble, or even if you are legal you could hurt your relationship with your friend.
my daughters friend seduced me...she was 12 but she said she was 19...it was fun until i found out her age...now i feel like a pervert...and i hate mysef