I have a problem about being gay bi or straight

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I’m 16 and I’m confussed about my sexuality I always loved women and wanted to have sex with girls and I still do but when I was in 6th grade me and my friend showed each other are penis and he showed me his first and then I showed him mine and we stared laughing we thought it was funny and we were running around his living room with are penis out and I for some random ass reason ran up to him and then hit his butt with my junk and I didn’t get an erection....and he did the same thing back to me....then later on me and him swore not to telll anyone about this and we both were weirded out and were like “wtf that was weird asf” and I was disgusted myself...we ended up leaving it in the past and I knew I was straight from that day froward because during 6th grade I was getting erections from this girl sitting right beside me in class...I was also in love with this girl...then when I was 15 I was still getting random erections and one day out of curiosity I looked up gay porn and I got an erection....before I did that I was masterbsting to lesbian porn and straight porn and I was able to cum from those videos...but this video I got hard that one time and then i got scared and stopped....a few days later I was watching this show and it had gay sex in it and I didn’t get an erection I was just disgusted then later and when I was 14 I watched this show and I seen gay sex and I never got hard...never in my life I got hard to gay sex until I watched this movie called moonlight and there was scene were two guys had sex but all showed was them kissing and then it showed them hugging and the guy was giving him a hand job and the sound of the belt buckl getting unraveled made me hard and then a few months ago I watched gay porn again but I look at it once and got hard and then I looked away and I started to beat my meat and I didn’t look at it again at all...and when all of this was happening I had feelings for a girl for like 2 years and then she turned me down and played with my emotions and then I caught feelings for another girls and she stopped talking to me and 2 more girls that I had a crush on rejected me...and on August 1rst 2016 is the day I started feeling confused about my sexuality I’ve never been the same sense...and ikno I’m not gay like 100% I can feel my self in the back of my head saying your not gay but everything else is saying I’m gay.....I can’t get hard to gay porn even when I try I never fantasized about having sex with men..I only fantasized with girls I just need help.....also I went to a party when I was 14 and this girl twerked on me and I got hard and it just kept happening all the girls kept twerking on me....and now I have to make my self hard by stroking my penis to something I’m attracted to with is females

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    I suggest you stop freaking out and trying to second-guess yourself.

    Guys your age get erections at the drop of a hat - and that doesn't mean you've got a hat fetish. The incident in sixth grade doesn't mean you're gay. Getting an erection in response to a sensual male-male scene does not mean you're gay. The important point is that you are sexually attracted to girls, not other guys.

    Understand that human sexuality is not an either-or thing. It is not the case that everyone is either totally straight or totally gay. It's a spectrum. Some people know from a very early age that they are at one of the far ends of the spectrum and they never move, but some people are somewhere in the middle, and a few drift around on the spectrum. People your age are often not certain where they fall on the spectrum, but you seem to be pretty clear that you're actually straight.

    I'm not clear why you seem to link the girls rejecting you with you becoming uncertain about your sexual orientation.

    Are you thinking, "Well, girls don't want to be with me, so I guess I must be gay"?

    Do you seriously believe girls have some sort of special power which allows them to reject gay guys? Girls don't have the right to label you gay or straight. That's something you get to decide for yourself.

    You believing that the fact that you haven't yet had much success with girls must mean you're gay would be silly beyond words. Virtually every straight guy in the world has been rejected by at least one woman. Many straight guys are rejected by woman after woman. They don't decide, "Well, I guess I'll just give up on women, and go be gay!"

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