I have a problem..

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I have this problem. I’m a female, 20 years old and sexually active. At the moment i like my looks and have some confidence and i have a strong urge to date guys and have sex with them. But what the problem here is that i always lose this feeling, it always goes like this: all of a sudden i isolate myself for many months, have the lowest self-esteem ever, feel myself so ugly and worthless and give up on the idea of dating. Then i get this feeling again that i’m sexually active and i’m confident and feel sexy and i want to date guys and have sex with them. This makes me feel very confused. Also i feel ashamed of this confident sexually active - side of me. Every time i feel sexually active i feel like i’m losing myself. I feel the most myself when i’m depressed and hate my looks and have not much sexual desire.

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  • IrishPotato
    4 years ago

    I think you should talk to a therapist instead of us.

    Don't give up when one therapist doesn't work for you either. Just as you don't get along with some people, the same applies to therapists.

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  • mauzi
    4 years ago

    probably normal hormone cycle, lots of women only get turned on once a month

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Seems to me like it's all in your head. Don't over analyze your body and your sex drive and quit thinking about it so much. Just have sex more often with people you approve of and don't get raped or get pregnant. Lack of confidence and understanding of one's sex drive can often be solved by an increase in sexual activity.

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