I have a crush on my gay friend

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I'm 17 years of age and I'm in love with my gay best friend who is also my age, and sometimes it feels like he feels the same way but I'm not sure because he gives me mixed signals :( . i dont want to ask him if he likes me! i dont want to ruin our friendship ,I started liking him before I knew he was a homosexual i know his gay because I once asked him if he was gay because of some comment he made and he said yes and I thought he was messing with me and I didn't care at that time because I thought he was joking! and more days passed he started getting serious and he stared pointing out the guys he like and he goes for older men :( I'm still in love with him :'( and I'm not sure what to do :( help me please I just can't help but cry :'(

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    What's wrong with just being honest and talking to him. If, as you said, he goes for "older guys" the worst he can say is you aren't his type. But, if on the other hand, he does find you interesting, but has been afraid to bring up the subject, thinking you are straight, then you've both been losing out over a miscommunication.
    The word for today is; communication.

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    • Judith_leonard
      10 years ago

      Wait his my best friend ! I know his gay and he knows I'm straight and I'm a shy girl

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      • thegypsysailor
        10 years ago

        Oh, I thought you were a guy. Ooops.
        Well, in that case, I'm pretty much sure you're outa luck. I doubt he is going to respond as you hope to you hitting on him, though he might be flattered. But, you know, you never know, perhaps he's bi?
        There's only one way you'll find out.

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    • Judith_leonard
      10 years ago

      I'm straight though

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      • thegypsysailor
        10 years ago

        OK, now I'm confused. "I have a crush on my gay friend"???

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  • Hamartia
    10 years ago

    Why don't you try to introduce the topic gently, like ask him what type of guys he's into. Maybe also let him know you're interested in experimenting. It might get him thinking about you in that way.

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    • Judith_leonard
      10 years ago

      How do I introduce the topic ?

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      • Hamartia
        10 years ago

        It should be really easy. Just ask why type of guys he likes, why he likes him, what he looks for. Just a normal conversation except it is about attraction.

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    Have you tried sucking his cock?

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    • davesumba
      10 years ago

      Always a good way to get the ball rolling in a relationship, or balls.

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    • Judith_leonard
      10 years ago

      Nope !

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      • handsignals
        10 years ago

        Trust me a BJ will seal the deal, all guy's love em Gay or Straight.

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        • Judith_leonard
          10 years ago

          BJ? What does that mean ?

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          • handsignals
            10 years ago

            suck on his penis.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You move on.

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    • Judith_leonard
      10 years ago

      I try

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  • randypete
    10 years ago

    take him out drinking and suck hid cock spend the night with him

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