I have a crush on my friends crush!

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Okay, so I have a friend and she has a crush on this boy but I absolutely hate her crush! Then one day after all the hating I kinda clicked and soon I got this big crush on him. I'm not sure if it is really just a crush or maybe a phase through life, please help, I haven't told anyone yet but my other friend thinks that I like him but then I told her I don't but she is getting suspicious. Please help me!

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Will my friend hate me? 5
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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    I heard somewhere that women tend to find men attractive if other women find that man attractive. Might be the case here.

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    • Lolz1000
      9 years ago

      Maybe, thanks for the comment.

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  • howaminotmyself
    9 years ago

    All crushes are phases.

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    • pixie44
      9 years ago

      Yea she sounds kind of young.

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      • Lolz1000
        9 years ago

        yeah, I'm 19

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  • lalalife
    9 years ago

    You just need to find someone ELSE that can caught your attention & forget all about that kid. You can't do that to your friend, it's not fear & you will make yourself look like an jealous fake h*e.

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  • pixie44
    9 years ago

    Would you be mad if you liked someone and then your friend all of a sudden liked him?

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    • Lolz1000
      9 years ago

      I guess, thanks for the comment anyway.

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      • pixie44
        9 years ago

        Not trying come off rude sorry. Just trying to have you step inside her shoes. If you wouldn't be okay with it, she probably wouldn't either. But you never know. I love seeing my friends happy and if my friend liked the guy I liked, but he chose her instead i'd be a little crushed at first but I'd get over it and find someone else cuz it wasn't meant to be, you know?

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  • laxman209
    9 years ago

    You need to honestly explain the situation with this friend, she may or not get mad about it. But you are a person who has feelings also. And if she can't be fairly considerate of your dilemma. Then that's not a friend. But you must give her the first advance of her crush, if it works for her, you move on, if not, you advance, if works good, if it doesn't, then you're at the same dead lock and he isn't worth it.

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  • Lolz1000
    9 years ago

    Thanks for the comments everyone, I will keep you on track of what is going on.

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  • dirtybirdy
    9 years ago

    It'll end up in a threesome.

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    • Neuria
      9 years ago

      Plot twist: the two girls realize they actually have a crush on each other

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        9 years ago

        I'm sorry but ewwwwww

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        • laxman209
          9 years ago

          Send me a picture of you both, and maybe i'll be your crush

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        • Neuria
          9 years ago

          There's nothing wrong with exploring each other's bodies. ;)

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