I have a crush on a 17 year old?

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I'm a girl who is gonna be 19 in less than a month. I recently met a boy who comes into my job fairly often and we usually just talk about random subjects and laugh a lot for the majority of my shift. He always comes in with a backpack and would talk about his classes so I thought he was in his senior year but he just recently told me he turned 17 about 3 weeks ago and he's a junior in high school. That should've scared me off right there but it didn't at all! I asked him yesterday how him and his girlfriend are doing and he faintly smiled while saying he left her. Now knowing that he's single has only made me more attracted to him. I don't think we would ever be together but I don't mind the idea of it. And if one thing led to another and the opportunity came up to hook up with him there would be no hesitation. But IIN?

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    No it's not normal you are way to young for him, he sounds like vulnerable cougar pray to me, he should be fucking rich divorced fake titied 50 year old's.

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  • seeking
    10 years ago

    I think it's normal and the age difference isn't bad at all. It's not like he is 15 and you are 25. I say go for it.

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    • Lynxikat
      10 years ago

      This.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You cradle snatcher, but in all seriousness just ask him out.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    Do you both like pizza?

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  • zebraprintedroses
    10 years ago

    I could understand if there was a huge age gap, but there isn't, so I'm confused as to why this is an issue. Are you opposed to dating people younger than you or something?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      yes i am actually lol

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  • dirtybirdy
    10 years ago

    Silly. I was 19 and a half if you want to get technical about it, and dated a young lad who was like 17 and a quarter. So cute, he was. No harm done...well except those times we took some extacy…

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    • shuggy-chan
      10 years ago

      Remember that guy that was 9 years young with the amazing shuggahtits?

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    No problem. You know how interesting he is and he knows you as well. You can be very casual about asking him out, but if you put your mind to it, you probably can give him the green light to be forward to you.
    He needs you, should be your concern. Good luck.

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  • Vato
    10 years ago

    It's not a problem as long as you don't seduce him before he's eighteen. Two years difference is nothing. Madonna, j-lo and the cheating house wives of reality tv date younger guys. When I was seventeen, I was more attracted to the eighteen and nineteen year olds instead of the younger ones.

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  • ScooterNyne
    10 years ago

    age does not matter. Get him.

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  • pacinoharmon
    10 years ago

    I say go for it, if and when he's over his ex that is. I'm a 21 y/o woman and I like a guy who's 19 and a half. And one of his best friends is 14 and his gf is almost 18. Age doesn't matter :)

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    • Lynxikat
      10 years ago

      An eighteen year old is dating a fourteen year old? Sorry, but I think that's gross. A person who's graduating high school has no business being with someone who can't even try to get their driver's permit.

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  • PureLikeSnow
    10 years ago

    Give him about two weeks, and then go for it. Whenever people break up there always is a certain extent in which both people feel sorrowful.

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  • Maggie2000
    10 years ago

    You are 18 and he is 17. What's the problem? Is what normal?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      he is still in high school and still has another year of it to go that's why i personally find it odd

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      • RomeoDeMontague
        10 years ago

        Normal yes.

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      • StrayKhajiit
        10 years ago

        Move to the UK then you both would have graduated lol no but in the UK its perfectly normal so idk why it should be any different across the waters

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