I have a boyfriend that i love but i check out girls?

I think it's normal but I don't think its normal for ur bf not to like three ways I kno it sounds ignorant but three ways r awesome

I am the same as you, I am in a long term relationship, but am trying to figure out my sexuality. I love my boyfriend, but I want to explore other options. I think this comes from being in a serious relationship at a younger age.

I got very drunk one night, and found a willing girl. I told him about it, and our relationship has never been the same. I cheated on him. But I do not know what I would have done with out the experience of being with another woman at least once in my life.

Part of me thinks it was worth it. The building sexual tension and attraction I felt when I was around other women who I thought I may have a chance with was driving me crazy. But I really messed up a good relationship. It has been over a year since it happened and he is still not over it.

As for him telling you to look away if there is a boob reference, that is immature. If he loves you, he will accept you as being bisexual or at least bicurious.

that is normal. i think all women look at other women, even if it is just to compare or admire.

im in the exact same boat. but my boyfriend is supportive. idk if it is normal...

I am the same. I have also been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.. But I'm constantly checking girls out, I think a lot of girls are really hot.

As for it being normal, I'm not sure.. Because I wonder if it also.

Not into 3 ways?

You should get a new boyfriend. He's probably secretly gay.

same here...I think it's normal a lot of people are that way

Get a threesome on the go, he wont say no, i can promise, that hes into all that stuff, fo' show!

Have you talked to your bf about a threesome? a lot of guys (myself included!)like the idea of haveing a threesome, especially if the third partner is another woman. The fact that you like the idea of another woman and him makes it even better. Good luck! :)-Legion

Im also in the same boat. I love my boyfriend of 5 years. And i really enjoy the sex we have, but for some reason in order for me to get turned on I have to look at women. I find guys attractive, but never sexually so. Only women.

well i hope when he tells you to look away he is joking. if you truly can't just stay with him without fulfilling your fantasy you should just tell him to his face that he's not enough for you and you want more. If he's dead-set on refusing a 2 girl one guy threesome you might have to dump him. poor guy. hope he knew what he was getting into when he got with you.

when i was married i found myself attracted to woman and i felt it was cheating. However, we were on verge of splitting anyway so one day i did it and found out that i loved it. I am now with a different man and although we are happily in love i want to be with a girl again. He is more understanding and does not consider it to be cheating as long as it is not with any other man just female. So I would say you will never know till you just try it. That is how you discover if you like anything is by trying it. I now have a bf and can also if i chose have a gf.

Hell yeeeaaaahh

You seem to be more interested in girls than guys. Just leave him and find yourself a girl friend. That's what I would do :) Or I'd be the girl in the three some. Either one ;)

I would let you do a girl, if I'm either participate or watching

What you describe is normal, but the way he acts about it seems kind of off. I think you should sit down and tell him about it. Maybe you should consider "taking a break" and exploring what your curious about.

Sounds sexual;)

nothing wrong with it, but you should probably discuss this seriously with your boyfriend.

Come to think of it, it really depends on the severity. Do you want to have sex with other women? Or does that aspect make you nervouse? Theres a big difference right there. But I think if you truly love your boyfriend, then it's no different than wanting to be with another guy. From his point of view, no matter how immature, you want to be with someone else. Man or women. Have you ever considered how you would feel if he desired a man instead of you? Even just to experiment?

He makes you look away because you like it? Maybe you're mistaking your feelings and causing them to grow into something they are not. Women often admire other women for something they have, aka nice breasts, tight butt. It's usually used to compare yourself though, even just nice hair or eyes. Sort of like "My breats are small, I admire hers because they're so big" I admire other women myself, and I could see that causing a person to wonder if they are bi or not, maybe even start to see an attraction. I think what your problem is, is that you let your admiration go to far. Think about it.

She's not leading him on if she does like him! There's nothing wrong with checking other people out- even other girls

Someone needs to cone out of the closet. Stop leading on your poor boyfriend, when your clearly GAY.

Fullfill your passion. Boyfriends or Girlfriends are secondary. Go with your desire. Being happy is the most important. Explore your curiosity. How else can solutions be discovered?

Admit it to him and go from there. Don't let your desires to be held back. If he's on and supportive the better. If not, then you're unhappy. I've done the same with my partner. Turned out to be fantastic and not so good. Overall, the passion was sastisfied and have no regrets at all.

i totally feel u. sounds lik me.u have to make up ur mind and n my case i took a break and now im happyier then ever. it was so hard though bc i truely cared for my boyfriend.we r still great friends but it took two years to overcome the aspect of me wanting to explore my sexuality. now im with a girl and its great been with her for over two years. some times you just got to take a leap.tomorrow is not promised....live like it waa ur last with no regrets is my moto. good luck let me kkow what happens

Then you fancy girls, fact.

Hot. Threesome. Go.

The thing is do you have sexual fantasies about women? If you have sexual fantasies about women then you could definitely do it but on the other hand if you're not comfortable doing it with a woman you could just be ok with being attracted to women but not do it. If you had a boyfriend who was totally ok with you doing it with a woman or even wanted to join in it would the situation be different? ;-)

same thing here, i love my bf but girls turn me on a little and thats all i know so far....

I think you have to decide if exploring your possible bisexuality is something that you really want to do or is even worth doing. If you decide you want look into it then the only thing to do is tell your boyfriend you want a break in your relationship in order to figure things out. You may decide it's not worth the trouble.

Yeah, my friends and i think it's weird that he's not in to that. Everyday he's like "things will be different after this happens", "are you really serious about doing this?" then all of a sudden he was cool with it and said he wouldn't mind me being with a girl if he's there to see it. And as if that wasn't enough already, he made me feel guilty again by saying "i don't even want to know when it happens, it'll break my heart" its really fucking annoying and i don't think he respects me.. he says that i can do whatever i want, but its all bullshit. Hes trying to guilt me out of it. i don't think he actually cares, he doesn't understand that it would be a one time thing. but when i decided to go through with it, i couldn't find anyone. still stuck. i might go to bounce.

Go for it. If he doesn't like everything about you then he just doesn't If you are attracted to girls I say explore the possibilities! Without him. But trust me he will be missing out.