I hate young children, especially my boyfriends son.

Why would you even consider dating a guy with kids since you hate them so much? Hopefully you'll both take your heads out of the sand and 86 the whole marriage deal

Get out of this relationship. You are not good for your boyfriend or his child. They could get someone who is better suited to both of them. Step aside and out of the way, and don't date someone with children again.

if you don't like kids, don't date a guy with a kid.

It is called the terrible twos. At that age kids can be a handful. Some eventually grow out of it....others stay annoying. Ever tried bonding with the kid? Like take him to places he would like. For instance a petting zoo, the park, beach, carnival, etc. Buy him some toys, Make the kid like you. Sneak in some treats here and there oh and give plenty of ice cream :D

either that........

or don't be in a relationship with a guy who has kids. No matter what his kid will alwas come before you and the childs mother will always be involved in his life. So think about it...your not only dating the guy...you get the kid and the mother of his child included in the package.

Take it all or leave it
By the way, not all kids are bad.

I totally understand. My bf of a year and a half has two sons, 9 and 6 yrs. I love the 6 year old but the 9 year old is so annoying, rude and intrusive that it makes me want to strike him. He is always asking stupid questions like, "would u be mad if someone bit ur arm off?" or "have u ever beat up an animal" or "what if i gave u one billion dollars"...the list goes on and on. He also makes these obnoxious screaming sounds when his dad leaves the room. He is always putting his grubby fingers on me and invaiding my personal space. I really don't like this kid but i love his dad so much. i have even told my bf that i don't like his kid, thinking he would make it easy for me and dump me but he just said he will work on him. Lol! Idk what advice I could possibly give u because I am in the same situation as u. Good luck. Wish me luck also.

If you stay with your bf and he has custody, you're gonna wind up abusing him. All it takes is one bad day where you're off guard and a smack or a kick. Then the police will put you away and you're bf's gonna take his son's side. Best to get out or tell him to give his son back to his mother, at least while you're with him.

1. If you lay hands on that kid your boyfriend will, leave you, beat the shit outta you, or in rare cases will encourage it. I think that's funny cuz the number three AINT GONNA HAPPEN!!
2. If you like this guy, you should love his child. Of you want to get to spend time with the child without smashing his precious face in, go pound an apple or something as HARD as you can and go play with the child, WITH your boyfriend.

3. And right now, and until you figure a way out if this problem you need therapy. And until you get the help you need, I think you are the second biggest douche in the world next to Hitler, so learn to like your children, glitter tits.

lol i agree with pretty much all the above posts.. i don't think your cut out for a guy with a kid. But don't talk to him about it like somnone suggested! "Hun, I just thought you should know I really want to kick your son in the face with steel toed boots and throw him out the window just to see him hit the pavemnt" might not go over so well

All I can say is I hope you don't marry this guy for the kids sake ! If he gets to you that bad find a guy ( or girl) that can't have kids with you ever ! You do not need to be around kids

I've felt that way before. Would never act upon it! But it's not all kids. There's just been a few.

Don't throw him out the window, that's horrible, you should be ashamed of youself..

Use a sledgehammer!

Wow. If u don't like kids don't date someone with a kid!! It's that simple. Babies need love to live not hate. Ass

grab the baby, throw him into the microwave, and in the mourning serve him to your bf in bacon and other meat products.

afterwards tell him you just ate your son ;)

LMAO

That's awful! The child can't help it if it cries. Crying means it needs something. Children need love and care, not someone who hates them. Get away from that baby so it can be safe from your awful personality and thought.

I feel the same way. I love animals, and I am pretty civil to most people, but I abhor young children. I just took a week long trip with my brother and sister and niece. The girl is 2, and adorable to everyone but me. Whenever she mispronounces words and is happy, I get angry. When she whines and cries, all I want to do is scream at her to shut the fuck up. I dream of pushing her down and laughing while she cries. I wish I wasn't like this, but I am. I guess some people don't like kids. To those of you who are aghast by this, I get a kick out of that as well. I hate kids younger than 8, and don't intend to ever have children, because I would probably hurt them. We aborted our last child. It was probably for the best.

wow i hope this guy dumps ur disgusting ass b4 anything, physical or emotional hapns to this poor kid.

I'm do sorry, but I can't stop chuckling on this!

I'm sure you love his daddy, but if you don't like kids it's best not to date someone who has them. You're setting yourself up for pain, sadness and frustration. Don't act on your urges and good luck!

you all say get out of the relationship but its only the kid i say 2 year olds always do that that *theres this kid in my appartment that can pick locks and he steals my pokemon card collection (yes im 21 and i have a rare set that im gonna sell) but he alwas steals them and i find him at the schoolmi now work at (yes i get fired alot) so i take them back and punt him half way across the soccer field

The above posts really make a statement about how people should only have kids when they're married, and then only when they are 150% sure that they want to be with person for the rest of their lives. Imagine having a stepmom that wants to kill you. Wow...now that's a screwed up childhood

Damn you bitches are crazy

Hmm some children make me feel that way too. Has to be a really out of hand kid though.

there annoying little things, you get no love from them, they just take take take, cry cry cry. never date a guy with kids, never have kids. simple.

Just don't actually throw him out the window so he can smack his face of the paviment, might not be to good for his health, or your relationship with him!

I'm a child my-self, I just beat-up people really, hope I don't grow up wanting to abuse children, beating-up children when you're one is fine, but older, go to hell.

hmm.. that is a lil' extreme. Do you feel like doing that b/c he's a 2 yr old or because he is your boyfriend's child. Definitely talk to your bf abt it, perhaps sending the kid to a day care center?

I'm gonna give you advice that i should follow myself:

Hopefully, the brat still has a mother that he spends time with half the time , right?

Well, YOU make it a point, whenever the brats not there, make things with your boyfriend as FUN, and WONDERFUL, and special as you can. what i'm saying is, try to make things so , sooo good when its just you and your boyfriend, that he will initiate THAT, with being alone with you without the brat. So that way, he really doesnt want the kid when its his turn to get him, because he thinks of how good things are when the brats NOT around.....
Get it??????
Do whatever you can to make your boyfriend closer to you, than he is his son. DO NOT be mean to his son in front of him. That will ONLY do the opposite. Be as nice as you think u should to the kid, (in front of your boyfriend) and then when you guys dont have the kid, make things as good as you possibly can.
hopefully before long, your boyfriend will like being alone, with YOU and only you, and before long, he will not want anything to do with his son!
and i'm gonna do the same!!!! hehe!

good luck!