I hate you mom

i freaking hate my mother she has always favoured everyone but me and took out all her anger on me is it normal that i hate her

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Based on 66 votes (48 yes)
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  • redtruck

    Hmmmm !! Jerry springer ?! He can fix that stuff

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  • Dozis

    Heredity troubles comIng soon.

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  • Dot123

    I hate you son/daughter.

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  • firiachan

    Sounds like a very abusive mother. My own was very much alike. I only ended up not hating her, after she died. And that was because of "respect for the dead".
    She was abusive to my sister, too. She preferred boys to girls. I think I hated her even more, for what she did to my sister.

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  • casualcrow

    leave your house and trip on shrooms for a day. have a revelation and return home to realize you're lucky for having parents.

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  • lovekills

    ii feel like that too.....but this bitch gave u birth, just like this bitch gave ME birth

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  • OK that is physically abusive of your mom. Does she know she could be charged with assault? Can you talk to Dad about it?

    It sounds like she has a loose nut, and has made you the scapegoat. You have every reason to hate her behaviour. And it is pretty big of you to love her despite that.

    But seems her abuse of you has gone way too far for way too long. If no one else in the family has the guts to stand up to her and protect you, then I think you need outside intervention.

    A school counselor. Youth agency. Clergy. Responsible relative. And yes, the police.

    What is being done to you is just wrong and has to stop.

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  • muzziwuzzi1hotmailcouk

    sounds a bit bad just be glad you have a mum unlike me, find a way of getting her to like you.

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  • cookiegirl

    my boyfrieds mom got pregnant and then his dad just went away, she treats him as if it was just another duty to raise him, no stimulation, didnt play with him no nothing, then she had a girl and she is aproper mother to her but when it comes to my boyfriend, now that hes grown up she sort of expects him to pay for everything in the house cause shes resentful she had to do all that shit for him, never showed him real love... i guess we would need to hear your whole story but you gotta remember, mom are human too and theyre bound to amke mistakes, to have bad feelings that they wont necessaroly regret or apologize for... hating her hurts yourself more that it hurts anyone else, its not your fault if you had a bad mom tho, try to make the best of it

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    • aml909

      i hate the things she does...she spends ridiculous amounts of money and wont ever buy me anything. She listens in on my fathers phone calls and she always hits me..i am 19 she doesnt hit anyone else of my siblings but she will always hit me...the other day she was mad at me because i gave her "attitude" and she was choking me and hit my jaw and for 3 days I couldnt bite down or open my mouth all the way. I just hate the way she treats me and everything she puts me through

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      • cookiegirl

        are you her first kid? how old was she when she had you?

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      • cooldavid

        sounds pretty bad... mutually disrespectful relationship. Maybe you should move out for a while?

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  • Galaxy500

    grow up. she gave birth to you. I sure hope you're not disrespecting her.

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    • Bozana

      Maybe You don't understand what's going on in another person's life because you have or had a loving mother. This nonsense like "she gave you birth" is something abusive parents always say when they abuse you. They even say: I made you and I can kill you... So, if you can't help a person, don't preach either. This is not a place where people get more accusations but a place where people support each other in order to understand life and themselves better.

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      • Bozana

        This second letter was for Galaxy500

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    • aml909

      i am not disresepcting here and when i wrote this i was really angry i dont hate her i just hate the way she treats me and puts me down

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      • Bozana

        aml909, I have e similar mother, she destroyed me emotionally. Nowadays when she is 92 I am in the position to look after her and I would, but not if she has to abuse me verbally every day. There is old people's home, she can go there and be happy. It is not our duty to be anyone's victims. God does not ask it from us. I would wash her every day if she got bed ridden but I won't take abuse. When I was small, she washed me, all right, but I wasn't abusing her. My sister told me that she would buy me a brand new car just to look after mom, but I can't even if the car was Mercedes benz... I simply can't because anger will lead my life and actions.

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