I hate weddings

You need to sort out your guilt & confusion about sex. But I do have similar feelings about big weddings.

The wedding industry has convinced a whole generation that big $ and debt for a manufactured wedding is normal. Its not. Bring back small, affordable & stress free weddings! These are loving, were the norm at one time, and if you were one of the few invited you know what you mean to the couple.

Big, vulgar & expensive weddings have become the norm though. Bridezillas consider it their right of passage and impose it on everyone. When you attend these out of social and personal obligation, do be respectful of feelings of the bridezillas. Realize what they have simply been brain-washed to believe love = money squandered on these over-priced & cliche events. Too bad.

Weddings suck! I hate that as a society we are forced to feel like this is something you have to do. I'm a 30 yr old attractive female who has been in a 10yr relationship and I would never get married.

Marriage is an outdated overrated religious concept, hence I hate weddings too.

I can totally relate, I ABSOLUTELY HATE WEDDINGS AS WELL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I agreed with everything you said when it comes to hating weddings. People spend more time worrying about their wedding as opposed to who they marry......

i cannot understand the negative comments above or your "normal" rating either, weddings do seem to make most of us uncomfortable I'm sure, I personally would love to get out of going to any weddings that i am invited to, but you really need to come up with something special if you do. Anyway on regards to getting married. why should you? unless you are the religious sort I really don't see the point of thinking about marriage until you have met someone who you would even consider spending the rest of your life with, and once again if most of us looked at our current or recent girlfriends, i am sure they would agree that they are not marriage material.

I am engaged for 5 days and I hate it. I want to run away. I am a female, 31, I feel like I HAVE to get married:(

I think that if a couples not ready for a child then why not use a condom or take the pill. It hardly causes any harm. I guess i will never understand marriage till the time i decide I want to get married if that time ever comes. But weddings are beautiful, and its sweet knowing two people are so into eachother that they pay so much money to show evryone. Most of them end in divorce. I don't see why a piece of paper should state that you love eachother. Just being together and living like a married couple is enough. For me anyway

i hate the whole idea of marriage it's aweful and overrated married people end misrable and boring anyways. marriage is the same aweful garbage that held women back for all these years.

wedding are boring as f#ck, but I like the party afterwards. Hells yeah, silly dancing!

I wouldn't blame you. Weddings and marriages are a waste of time because marriages usually fail by ending in divorce. That's why I can't consider marrying unless I know a way to bring my chance of divorce all the way down to exactly 0%.

weddings are religious, and most parents require them. condoms and birth control keep people from crapping out babies like no tomorrow, as libido is a natural reaction to being healthy and post-pubescent. Shut up.