I hate the number of people that want a relationship but no sex

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I'm not sure where all these people come from or what happened to them to make them that way, but it seems like there's more and more with these ideas. And they all seem to want to date me and drop this bombshell in my lap after a while. Usually after I get attached and I have sex with them.
Yes that's right, I had one who acted like she liked sex but then tried to sell the idea of committed celibacy to me. Over a few months the sex got to be less and less and these "hypothetical" conversations about celibacy became more and more. Was I really that bad in bed? Do you have to lure me in by using your pussy like a fucking bear trap before trying to get me on board with that shit?
Who the fuck do you people think you are? What the fuck is wrong with you? Why must you be so deceptive?

More importantly, why do I seem to attract these dingbats? Do any women actually enjoy sex or are you just all lying to get your way?

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  • lilmich
    10 years ago

    You might just be really bad in bed, us women enjoy sex

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      If I was do you think they'd tell me and work with me to make it better?
      Or do you think they'd just take what they could and use it to cut me down and make a joke of me with their friends later?
      I know which one and it aint the good one. Maybe I just have the worst luck or just attract dingbats.

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      • lilmich
        10 years ago

        An honest nice girl would indicate and help you get better if that's the case. Although, a nasty girl will joke about it with her friends. You just need to meet a nice girl.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    After a few months here, I also have noticed this.
    My youth was spent in "the summer of love", the Haight/Ashbury in SF and "free love" and boy did we all, men AND women, take advantage of the liberal times!
    An idea is creeping into my mind that perhaps the human race is changing. The biological need to "spread our seed" may be fading as the world population nears a critical level. It is probably a crazy idea, but it may explain why this seems so prevalent today.

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  • SuperBenzid
    10 years ago

    Well such a thing would definitely be deceptive of them. I don't blame you for being annoyed.

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  • jeebley
    10 years ago

    This is just bizarre. I have never heard the term 'committed celibacy" before... can't believe there's even a term for this sort of deranged behaviour.

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    "Was I really that bad in bed?"

    Stop making it personal. It's almost certainly not personal. You're exposing your insecurity by suggesting this idea, thus worsening the problem.

    "Do you have to lure me in by using your pussy like a fucking bear trap before trying to get me on board with that shit?"

    Is it really such a stretch that people would want to change their minds about sex? People have long lives and sometimes want to change the way they live them. It might not even be "deception", so stop assuming the worst of people.

    "Do any women actually enjoy sex or are you just all lying to get your way?"

    Just because one woman did a thing doesn't mean all women do that thing. For God's sake.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      It wasn't one woman. Its been many. I was using the worst one as an example.

      People want to wake up one day and not fuck anymore, they can stay the fuck away from me. Jesus Christ, that's just cruel. Call it not deception or whatever but when someone does that to me I assume the worst of them.

      And I know im not so bad in bed. I was exaggerating the situation.

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      • dom180
        10 years ago

        However many it was, I guarantee it wasn't enough to be statistically significant :P

        That's "cruel" to you? You have a low threshold for cruelty then. Nothing's stopping you from breaking up with them and finding someone else if not having sex is so difficult for you. If you were seriously believing that people don't change their sexual wants and needs during their lifetime you had this shock coming to you. People change and that's just the way it is.

        How are we supposed to accurately judge a situation if you exaggerate it? That sounds like deception to me... :P

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          10 years ago

          Statistically significant? How many times do I need to hear this shit before it is? How many times do I need to get kicked in the balls before I catch up with the stats?

          People changing their sexual needs is a whole other subject, and I still find it disgusting that someone wakes up and decides they don't want to fuck anymore, no matter what their partner thinks or needs. You hear about it every day. lives are ruined over it.
          No, I'm talking about people with an agenda to draw me in and drop this bombshell. people that never wanted it in the first place but want me around for one reason or another.

          Fuckin' Philadelphia lawyer. Go practice divorce law so you can hear my story every day. At least I got away before it came to that.

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          • dom180
            10 years ago

            Lives are ruined because one person doesn't want to have sex with you anymore? Do you realise how silly that sounds? I know it sucks to be with an uncompromising partner who is on a different sexual wavelength to you, but stop the melodrama bullshit and keep your chin up.

            You're assuming the worst of people again. There's no logical reason to believe these people are being deceptive or leading you on, so why jump to the worst possible conclusion?

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              10 years ago

              I don't know why you got to keep arguing with me. Can you read what I already wrote? I said that in all of my past I used the worst example. I've had other relationships that ended for different shit too, but see this as a pattern. Sex is a huge part of any normal relationship. A deal breaker for lots. Quit trying to make me sound like a spoiled child for believing it.

              The world is full of unhappy marriages because of this shit. And it's not just me, it's something I've seen for a while. I've seen it with lots of friends. There's websites dedicated to hooking married people up. Why do you think they stray? There's a half a dozen posts on here in the last week about this. It's great you've mastered the opposite sex, others have had less luck, me included.

              If you disagree then just say so. Don't make this my fault. I'll post some happy uplifting shit about humanity later, OK stud?

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Blame feminism for that. They are trying to force The Matriarchy down our throats with covert subliminal messages all over the media.
    Girls are being brainwashed from a young age that sex is only there for men to get pleasure at the expense of women with nothing in it for themselves. Men's sexual desires are demonised and treated as dirty and evil.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      It's more than that. Sex = power. It's about power.

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  • lolol555
    10 years ago

    I've noticed all of my best relationships had sex involved. The others usually ended badly.

    I know what you mean, though. There was this one person I knew who also seemed to be obsessed with sex, constantly talking about it, then when we dated they didn't want it at all. We even had it before the relationship started but, unlike most flings, ended up pretty close. But then the relationship ended badly and we haven't talked since.

    I agree, it's annoying as fuck.

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    • bishophollett
      10 years ago

      i have to say that if friends cant get together and be themselves then and have sex with no strings attached they there would have been a sign somewhere a long the way. I loved fucking friends, its just sex and sholdnt be anything else, that saves both the parties to having any awarkward momn

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  • Maybeoneday
    10 years ago

    I think people want to know the person they are having sex with. If you're leading this girl on to believe there is something else between you then it's your fault. I guess I'm kinda old school but I think you should love the person you sleep with.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      In a committed relationship I agree.

      I'm kinda old school too and believe that if someone's going to love you and you love them back, you should take care of each others physical needs in any way possible.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    I don't know if it's normal. I don't want a relationship but still would like sex. Relationships are overrated.

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    • White___October
      10 years ago

      My idea exactly. If I want sex I just go see one of my fuckbuddies or get myself a one night stand. No relationships for me, that would only limit my freedom.

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  • Cobaltgum18
    10 years ago

    Haha, I'm usually asking the opposite question: Why do so many people want sex but not a relationship?

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  • CreativeThinker
    10 years ago

    yes probably you are not good in bed.. However putting aside sexual performance I would love to torch these kind of time wasters who make lame excuses for not having sex

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  • bishophollett
    10 years ago

    yip I want the other

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    • GoraIntoDesiGals
      10 years ago

      Yip = why I pee. xD

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  • SHAKEStheClown
    10 years ago

    If its just this one chick then I wouldn't worry about it. But, if she's one of a series of many I would personally try to find out how to be a better lover and work on my poon eatin' skills.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      10 years ago

      I eat the poon just fine. It ain't me, you clown.

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      • SHAKEStheClown
        10 years ago

        Well, if this is the ONLY chick to snap her legs shut on you then you ain't got a thang to worry bout.

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  • Ilovewinter12
    10 years ago

    Well, celibacy is a term for someone who doesn't want to get married, but it can be used to describe a person who doesn't want sex either.

    I'm celibate, due to personal reasons, but I wouldn't date someone and lead them on that I would have sex with them,
    that's kinda why I avoid relationships in the first place, because I do not desire sex.

    The way I see it, the women you've dated should of told you early on about how they feel, but trust me, not every woman is like that, there are women who enjoy sex, just keep looking.

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