I hate the idea of having babies

Ever since I remember myself, even as a small child, around 7 or 8, I felt a great amount of resistance and hatred towards the idea of having babies.
I got furious everytime somebody told me that I will have babies when I grow up. It felt totally UNNATURAL to me to want babies. I felt disgusted and angry that people couldn't see how STUPID it was to feel the need to have children.
Later on, I realized why I had such an enormous negative reaction to the idea of reproduction (either mine or that of other people). I hate when people get teary eyed and emotional when they have a baby. I don't hate babies, I am totally indifferent to them, they don't melt my heart or anything like that but I don't have negative emotions towards them. I hate THE PARENTS who choose to have them and bring them into this world without asking them first, just out of their OWN SELFISH reasons which they THINK is ''love''. In truth, very very very very few people can actually bring a soul down here merely out of genuine love. The rest just do what SOCIETY tells them to do, and they are under the illusion that they actually ''choose'' it on their own which is total BS. They can't choose to have a baby unless they have been BRAINWASHED by society. Nature never informs us that we are capable of reproduction. Otherwise, babies would be born with that knowledge and wouldn't have to be taught about birds and bees. Nature simply sets the TRAP by making us desire sex, NOT reproduction, and then using us as disposable hosts of DNA material so that the genes can be passed on. We are machines, slaves to our genome, and we don't want to see it.

That's why I don't want to have babies. I don't want to be a mere instrument of the almighty genes. I want to go beyond biology. Also, another reason why I hate reproduction is that I view it as a failed and haphazard attempt to overcome our mortality. It is so materialistic. We are only concerned about our bodies. We forget that WE ARE ALREADY IMMORTAL, our souls can never die. That's why I see it as a DEFEAT of our spiritual self when people choose to reproduce in order not to ''vanish''. It's an ILLUSION of the mind and I hate people who fall prey to it.

Instead of focusing on cloning our bodies (via having babies) we should spend our lives on EVOLVING spiritually so that we can become REALLY immortal, not just through our offsprings.

That's why I detest people who claim that they ''want'' to have children and people who want ME to have children. I hate being imprisoned in this material 3D reality and I don't understand why people want to prolong this imprisonment instead of asking for FREEDOM and ending the stupid cycle of survival and reproduction. Why don't they want to ASCEND spiritually?
Does anyone feel the same way?

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  • Dazed_dreamer

    Who would want someone like you to have kids anyways?
    Im not so-called 'wanting' to have kids, I know for a fact I will have kids.
    Detest all you want but idgaf haha

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    • NOBODY2015

      what is that supposed to mean? "who would want me to have kids anyway?"
      you probably didn't even understand my thinking if you make such a comment.
      I have raised children and orphans, abandoned children too...yes them, you know the ones who come here because somebody like you perhaps DOESN'T think before s/he makes them, and I am MUCH MORE loving and nurturing and responsible than their so called ''biological'' parents. It's exactly because I have such great sense of responsibility that I don't want to have children of my own WITHOUT their permission which is what you and other people do just like animals

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      • Dazed_dreamer

        Whoa, give me your whole life story thats nice to know but like I said idc.. I say what I want. Your entitled to your opinion blah blah etc..
        Most of the time I forget what I say until I get replies the next day haha.. Good for you oi, peace :)

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  • howaminotmyself

    You don't seem very spiritual to me.

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  • WielderofZukoroshi

    I don't like the idea of having babies either. Hence why I'll never reproduce.

    There's 10 reasons why a baby will never be in my future:

    1) Overpopulation.

    2) I strongly detest my paternal line.

    3) Pregnancy and Childbirth.

    4) Multiples. I'm a human, not a sow. Multiples are unnatural for humans.

    5) My mother already has biological grandkids.

    6) I don't want to deal with a baby/toddler/preschooler.

    7) I'd rather adopt.

    8) I find it way too selfish and narcisstic.

    9) Since I don't want to be here, what makes you think I'd force my kid to be here too?

    and

    10) I'm deep-down misathropic. I have no intention of adding to our numbers.

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    • ArayaLioness

      The world isn't overpopulated.
      http://pop.org/content/debunking-myth-overpopulation

      The rest is your opinion which you're allowed to have.

      @NOBODY: What YOU see as self-centered/narcissistic, other people see as beautiful and typical of human reproduction. You can't impose YOUR opinion on other people just because you don't like what they do. (How many people would like to raise another person's kids? That is how some see it.)

      ...Well, you can. But it will only serve to make you look like a judgmental fool.

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    • NOBODY2015

      I totally agree with you on
      1,
      4,
      7 (adoption is definitely the way to go nowadays. If only MORE people could stop being so self-centered and realized that)
      8 (absolutely correct! It is very narcissistic and extremely selfish)
      9

      Thank you

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  • thegypsysailor

    I think it's great that you won't be adding to the overpopulating of this planet. I also think many others should take that path as well.
    However, it is absolutely disgusting that you think, "we should spend our lives on EVOLVING spiritually". Please do not speak for me. Speak for yourself and say, I should spend my life on EVOLVING spiritually. I can't think of anything less interesting than immortality. Ascending spiritually is just gobbledegook.
    I'm not sure if you are religious or just strange, but you should have stuck with the no baby thing and left the spirituality thing for another post.

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  • RoseIsabella

    How about focusing on detesting only the people who want you to have babies? One thing at a time there, tiger.

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  • grungeislife

    i pretty much feel the same way it makes me cringe when i see people get all cheery and excited about having a baby its like out of all the people ive met 90% of them are assholes so it just makes me think do we really need any more assholes now? we have 7 billion people and were all destroying the world good job way to show the planet respect

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  • ArayaLioness

    Some people don't want to have babies, hate what they're going to have to deal with while having them, and more.

    You feel how you feel. It's not strange in anyway.

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  • theseeker

    There's nothing more incredible than the birth of a child because that is the creation of life, which is anything you've ever known. I'm not saying it's a good idea to reproduce as much as you can like some people do. Do it wisely, but the way you're on here belittling it isn't normal. I think creating an offspring of myself to contribute to the next generation is a great reason to have a child.

    The way I see it, in less than 100 years all of you on here along with pretty much everybody currently living on this planet including myself will be dead. So everything you do for yourself, your experiences, all the bullshit you stand for, the shit you talk, the possessions you have, whatever is inconsequential really. It's more important what you're ready to build and create for the next generation.

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  • noid

    Is this Leslie?

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  • Shackleford96

    There's so many things wrong with your argument, i don't even know where to begin.

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  • NOBODY2015

    well guys 7 out of 9 people thought I was normal though so maybe you should rethink your positions

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