I hate sex and sexuality

Generally an outcome of rape/suppressed rape/ suppressed molesting.

Therapy.Go.

That's not normal.

I knew my ex was on this site

you are probably a asexual person

Your just looking at it all wrong. It doesnt matter what part of the brain these urges come from doesnt matter... either way its still part of the human psyche and something we were created with.. sex is way overplayed these days and has become extreme. Take out all that freaky and kinky stuff you hear about. Look at sex in its simplicity, A man and a woman, in love, making love, with the idea of pro-creation. This is one of the most natural and beautiful things for humans to expeirience. There is absolutely nothing wrong with exploring and enjoying your body and sharing that

Well - I suggest - Not normal, not even maybe. But . . . if its the way you feel and there aint no sexual molestation in your past - well you probably ok with that but if youre in a relationship, your partner probably wont share your views which is very likely to lead to some serious conflict - neither of you want that!
Maybe begin working it through with a professional.

You're simply asexual. And no, that doesn't mean you're not attracted to any gender, but that you just don't need/want to have sex. There's nothing wrong with that, I think.

Sex is normal, but peoples attitudes towards it nowadays pollutes it and makes me hate it too. I mean, look at these some of these comments... Disgusting. It makes me not want anything to do with sex.

Fuck sex, (no pun intended)it contributes to reproduction, and I thusly hate it. The human body is revolting to look it, it's not comfortable to have another person attached to you at the rear, and honestly, it doesn't feel good. Your d*** falls asleep, that's the extent.

I once knew a lady ( about 20 years ago) who at the time was 80. She told me she saved sex for her wedding night and wasn't keen. Needless to say she hated the experience and it disgusted her and she cried right after, and never ever did it again! She also conceived that night and had a son, but never in her whole marriage had sex again, but her husband stayed with her and must have put up with it cuz he adored her and they were still married then! She got married in her early 20s. People can have successful relationships when they feel like this, but I think it's rare....

There's right a load of crap being said by some here. Like some people are gay or have fetishes other people have a naturally low sex drive. It's not something you can decide about, it's how you are. Studies have shown that asexuals account for around 2-5% of the adult population and there've also been a number of famous people who've either never ever had sex or they tried it and found it disgusted them. You also get quite a lot of inactive gay people who feel self-disgust and choose celibacy.

"lower 'reptile' brain" <- wtf?? You've got much bigger problems than your aversion to sex. Like your utter lack of coherent thought, for instance.

normal I guess

READ THIS. Sex is just a way of showing love and your physical attraction and emotional desire for someone. It is a way of telling someone that you think of them as more then just a friend. It was the way we were all created. Saying that sex is repulsive is like saying "I love you" or giving birth is repulsive. If everyone felt the same way we'd all not exist,you won't exist and when most have sex or think about it,they think of love and sexxy people not poop and violence. Look maybe you had terrible experience with a girl whose into S&M or other freaky stuff but not all sex is like that. You just have to find out what you're into sexually and what you like and your partner likes.

You really should see a therapist. Sex is fundamental to who you are as a human. It is essential for survival of our species. As far as it arising from the "lower reptile brain", so does breathing, eating and sleeping but you don't have the same disdain for these functions. Is it intimately connecting with another person that you fear? What happened to you that caused such a profound negative reaction to one of the most beautiful and powerful human experiences?

What is wrong with you? Everyone loves sex, it's natural.

I don't know if my opinion will really matter to you but I'll just go for it... I don't find your repulsion towards sexual contact weird or crazy at all, really, I quite agree with you. I'm basically not an adult yet but I think of sex and other sexual activitis as uncomfortable as you, and that should't be anyone elses problem. It's repulsive and animalistic and I'll just keep away from it.

"lower 'reptile' brain" <- wtf?? you've got much bigger problems than your aversion to sex... like your total lack of a coherent thought, for instance

That's okay. It really is. You don't have to participate, or think about it. There are many people who hate sex, and they are happy with their lives. Don't worry!

Darlin, you've put way too much thought into this. You're puttin t he pussy on a pedestal. Knock that pedestal over! And get some, its natural to want sex. Get a hooker.

The question "Is it normal?" is idiotic. Of course it's not normal, only about 1% of the population is asexual, so you can either say it's not normal, because most aren't, or that it's normal, because some are. The correct question is "Is it right?", and the answer to that question is yes. I'm asexual too and I think that people who like sex are illogical, stupid and obsessed. I have never felt sexual attraction, but I'm sure that even if I did I wouldn't act on it, because it would be a huge waste of time just chasing a girl instead of doing something fun that I like. Please don't answer that sexual attraction is like hunger, because it's not. Not acting on sexual attraction is not painful, like hunger is. I don't understand why people don't ignore this stupid instinct left over from when we were monkeys and needed something more than just the thought of having children to play with to have sex and reproduce.

I think you just need some really good back door action.

are you a woman or man?

Yeah, IMO poo is more disgusting. I'm sure you still do that. So hell, may as well do something a little dirty that's also really fun.

If we don't have sex we can't have babies.
Reptillian as it may be, if your parents felt the same way as you, then you wouldn't be here.

You wouldn't happen to be a 50-something famous effiminate musician from Manchester?

There are some people who consider themselves Asexual. I suggest you look them up on the internet, I hear there's a good number of them, I heard about them on TV. Maybe they have a Meetup near you or something, and you can hang out.

I think being asexual is normal, some people are just not interested in sex and that is totally ok. However the way that you describe sex as being related to rape and violence is quite sad - i also wonder if you have had some kind of trauma. Is sex unnatural - of course not - its the most natural urge in the world, thats how life is created - there is nothing strange or perverse about that!

So are you saying you don't even get aroused, have thoughts/fantasies, masturbate ... ? Then you'd be asexual. But no, you despise it. Which suggests you've had bad experiences and/or teaching.

Definitely not normal, but you are standing up to the face of everyone else. Sex is for creating human beings. Nothing else. Sex is only used in two other ways by humans: One, to make their d*cks/vaginas feel good, the most detestable and selfish method, and the other kind,labeled "beautiful" as an excuse to make your d*cks/vaginas feel good. You think that because the human bodies are so closely bonded during sex that this makes it a "beautiful experience", but there are many other ways to unite the human body with another without sticking your d*ck up someone's pussy.If you disagree wth this comment, you most likely side with sex, and are controlled by your own horniness.

sex is not like that.

That thought is not normal.

Well you've obviously ahd some horrible sexual experiance in the past, most likely as a child.

Think about it, talk about it, figure it out

Asexualism is fin in its own right, but a life without sex is pretty dull,

On a positive note, I'm sure your productivity has gone through the roof in the last two decades; but it's your choice

-Brent-

I don't know if that is normal, but everybody has their own feelings toward certain things. You seem to not only dislike sex, but completely abhor it...I only hate sex when I tell my husband that it hurts and he doesn't stop. It pisses me off. Maybe the way you feel doesn't have to do with sex itself, but the way you've been treated during sex in the past.

well considering your sexual peak is over the urge to have sex may not be as strong, but i wonder if you have ever been sexually abused in any way usually people that have , seem to have the same outlook maybe it's something you can work on but if i'm wrong that it's just the case of everybody is different

You might be asexual, check out AVEN.

dude ur prob sad cause u lost it. as in u dont use it u lose it

i repect your opinion, but there'S nothing wrong about sex though. violence is wrong, as much as sex MAY be just as uncivilized, at least it's good. just don't start judging other people though.

Take some viagra and call an escort.

Sorry, but there probably has never been a form of therapy which has helped anybody who couldn't help themselves anyway.

I feel sad for you. Sex is a gift from God! For your sake I hope you can realize that some day.

You said sex reminds you off shit. Lol... You're effin nuts!! Oh, I said nuts...you thinking about poop right now?

You've got a bigger problem than this..... your dominant, trashy attitude. Get help. Now.