I hate people's brat kids and i hate the parents

I agree. Some kids just need a good ol fashion ass whipping?

Stupid ass kids being stupid, and just being a little prick to be a little prick.

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I hate people's brat kids and I hate the parents. Yes it simply comes down to parenting and not only parenting but good parenting. Parents have to obvisously set boundries and there are some parents that obvisously let their kids run all over them, do what they want and these kids that are brats don't understand when they did something wrong.

Now I do not condone or believe in any way paddiling/spanking that is such old school and does nothing to help the children learn. Time outs are one of the better methods when kids get unruly and gives them a chance to sit and think about what they did wrong and why they did it. All spaking/paddling does is put fear into a child. Let's ask a basic question do you as an adult like to be spanked or did you like it if your parents spanked you as a child? I don't think so all it does is bring fear to the child and you don't want a child to be in anyway fearful. Parents that say the child does not learn with timeouts is completly wrong. Time outs are so effective and is one of the best approaches.

Parents have to learn to take control of their children and also don't give into when they want something they get it. That is just a reenforcer that they become brats, whine, complain etc they figure they can get what they want. You have to set boundries and it's ok if the child get's upset when you say no they will learn and again if they throw the temper tantrums use a time out and explain to them why they can't get what they thought they want.

Kids are way different nowadays very rude and disrespectful. Probably happened around the same times beating your kids ass went out of style.

totally normal ..
some kids are worse than devils !

mean, mean, mean man

I agree, right now my neighbours kids are screaming for no reason in the back garden. it's half 9 at night here.¬¬

OH I HEAR YA SISTA!!! I LOATHE bratty kids. My husband babysits some and I HATE THEM ALL!!!! Especially because the youngest one, (3) is ALWAYS hitting my animals. SHE HAS BEEN TOLD TTTOOOOOOOO MANY TIMES TO STOP!!!!!!! I can't take it anymore. The boy, (11) is always in trouble at school, getting kicked off the bus. I dread Mondays, because I know I have to deal with it again. He for the most part tries to stay at their house. But comes here for lunch, AS SOON AS HE COMES IN, the little witch is attacking my animals. I don't feel in ANY WAY, any of the traits I have read about. (i.e. jealous, myself having a bad childhood, etc). I just HATE kids. like you said. (BRATTY ONES). I don't want them IN MY HOUSE AND THAT'S THAT! My animals are my kids. And when they are getting abused, THAT'S IT!!! I HAVE NO TOLERANCE FOR KIDS!!!!!!!!!

I don't get how spanking is supposed to teach a kid anything. My parents did it to me occasionally, and all it did was make me angry, not make me want to stop doing the behaviour that got me spanked in the first place. It might not be harmful, but I don't think it teaches a child not to misbehave. Having privileges taken away for bad behaviour makes more of an impression, especially on an older child.

I hate bratty children too, but the children who are the worst usually (except for kids with an actual disability) have the worst parents.

I agree with wtfohyeah

I agree with ollio...and yeah you won't get it til u have kids closed minded person

The problem also with spoiling kids is spoiled adults. You know what I am talking about the guy in his 30s living with his parents and no job. It robs you of important life skills that make finding a job and becoming successful very hard.

ya, I have a supposed neice who is allowed to treat adults and her parents with disrespect and doesn't care about anything unless its about her. Adults can be the same way, it's not just kids. Yes, it definately stems from how we were raised.

Yes, I totally agree. I also think its horrible when parents complain their kids are out of control yet they don't have the nerve to step up and be the parent. If my kid was breaking something in a store I wouldn't stand there and just gently call their name. I would take them by the arm and leave the store. They would have toys taken away at home and sit in the corner. If you are not going to act like a parent and control the situation then don't complain when they don't listen.

OK - maybe I wasn't fair. But really - practice being tolerant. Try to understand that when kids misbehave it is for a reason. They are bored, tired, hungry, ill, scared ... what have you. They aren't bad. If they have inattentive parents - or ones that just boss and hit - that makes it worse.

Maybe you have had an overdose of kids. Maybe when your sisters visit they are looking for a break so the kids act up. Maybe you need "time out" from them so you aren't pushed past your limits.

i dont want little kids getting hit. I dont like spanking or beatings. i just want moms and dads to teach their kids to listen. if some can, then so can others. i understand some kids have problems like ADHD...but some are just brats.

Maybe, or maybe people should control their children...or opt not to have any if its not right for them. Maybe.

i totally agree!!! I love some kids and want to be a parent someday, but American parents spoil their kids and don't know how to discipline them. I intend for my kids to be well behaved. I mean obviously they can play and be stupid and obnoxious at parks and things, but in public it is so not ok for parents not to discipline their kids.