I hate people for no reason...??

Ok, so, this has happened with basically all my friends and most family members. So one day, ill be all fine and dandy with one of my friends and we'll be laughing ect ect. then the next day, for some random reason, ill just HATE them. Every little thing about them. The way the speak, and act and even how they dress. i dont even have a reason to!! i try to fight through it and act normal, and im pretty sure i succeed most the time, but i think it may cause issues later in life. IIN? Because it upsets me just as much as it probably upsets them

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  • rachel.dsouza

    every thing is fine with you..i am your buddy in this...same happens withme..some time i like people some times i hate them...what ever they do i saw it as..uhhhhhhh..and after few days again i found some good thing in them and again bad..i had fight with my friend and reletives..but i am wht i am..its a moody thing babe..dont worry it will disappear with time,,may be you have some unfulfilled desire deep inside you..may be thats the reason we both are like this way...dont wrry

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  • desmond1990

    I think this is normal... I kind of do this too. I'm really not a 'people person'.

    A few years ago, I began to wonder why this is, and I think it's because everyone else makes me feel like I'm the 'odd one out'. I've kind of embraced the fact that I prefer being on my own most of the time, because the shit people talk about really bores the shit out of me, which just left me feeling alienated. Even if I have a nice conversation with people, the next day I'll have convinced myself that the person is stupid and has nothing in common with me.

    The way I dealt with it was just to be more positive about everything and everyone - most of the time, people just meander through life in auto-mode. Most people really can't help that they're annoying, and you have to make a conscious effort to concentrate on all the positive things you like about them, even if your instinct is concentrate on their faults.

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  • TomboyC

    I thought I was the only one! Although apparently mine stems from social anxiety disorder...

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  • Justsomejerk

    I can see this becoming an issue when/if you get married.

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    • highrider

      no kidding

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  • AB1234

    Frankly, it's a wonder (to me...) that homicide is not extremely common.

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  • Caryopteris

    I think you are just a moody, short-sighted person who is selfish. That's all. Nothing unusual about it. The world is full of people like that.

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    • highrider

      fuck u at least im nice to people even if i dont like them (aside from right now im sure if i had to see u every day id be nice)unlike YOU

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  • alv1592

    It's normal to be mad at anyone, even your loved ones, if there's a legit reason but you should always forgive them. I don't know if it's normal to be mad at them for no reason though. You could be mad about something that has nothing to do with those people yet you take it out on them, which isn't a good thing because they won't want to be around you if you keep doing that. I tend to do that, but not with my family or friends or anyone I know...like, people on this site have attacked me for hating people who commit certain evil acts, and one who was kinda trollish said I deserved to be picked on by some cyber bully who took something I said the wrong way...anyway for no reason at all it re-reminds me of Kate Nash simply because I don't like her. Anyway, I agree with the other comments, seeing a therapist would be a good idea.

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    • highrider

      i should elaborate because i was so confused and how to say it. I didnt put the part in where ill hate them but it only ever lasts a maximum of a week. then were all good and dandy again. but it happens again and again

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  • DADNSCAL

    I think you need to see a therapist. It sound to me like you're projecting faults that you dislike in yourself onto others. While it's normal to meet people that "push our buttons", the fact that it occurs with so many of your relatives and friends indicates a deep self-loathing that probably will lead to further problems.

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    • highrider

      I have seen a therapist.....he says im fine

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