I hate people

i hate everyone i meet. everyone puts me in a bad mood just by talking to them. even if there not annoying there personalities just piss me off. i used to be a generally happy person and loved everything and everyone. but as i get older i see how crappy everyone is around me. i feel like everyones fake. i feel like even im fake. and its driving me insane. it makes me really sad and depressed when i see people happy. because i want to be happy and have fun to. but everyone nauseates me.even my best friends. the only exceptions i have are some of my family.

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  • GladyAmen

    Bunch of fakes do not deserve our attention.

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  • aliceinchains

    @valkeer

    your very right i do dislike myself. and most other people as well.

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  • liji3

    Sad to say I am in the same boat as u, i use to be friends with everyone, very pleasant happy person, as i got older something changed..cant be around ppl at all anymore, and i want to be like how i use to be, but cant get back to it.

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  • kingofthedust

    That's a very naive outlook on life. For most normal people this is just a phase we get over. It sounds like you are so concerned about what other people do and think that you neglect your own feelings. Realize there are many people just like you—people with social anxieties, trust issues, fears, ambitions, goals, regrets, quirks, insecurities, etc.—who are imperfect and fearful of stigmas. We all appear fake on the surface sometimes and this has been the blight of our civilization since we grew a frontal lobe and speech faculties. It's nothing to be mad about. Being angry isn't very constructive or even meaningful. I think it's just a wasteful distraction to selectively focus on what you consider wrong with someone else. Maybe you are just being too critical; cynical and pessimistic even. Look beneath the surface and see that we're all in this together for better or for worse. Stop pushing people away and you might find some solace in this incredible and fleeting existence we have here. You sound just a little depressed, and word for word like my best friend. I think it's because you don't get enough sleep or something. That's his problem. You're just a grouch, man. I'm telling you there are some really fantastic and honest people out there who hope to change this miserable condition of our pathetic lives. You could be one of them. Get some sleep and just chill. Try meditating or something. Relax.

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  • ferriswheelonfire

    People are evil, repulsive, vile, vomit-inducing, disgusting, selfish creatures. It is 100% percent normal to hate everyone.

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  • Release that hate with a gun

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  • HentaiNat

    You don't hate your family but hate everyone else? Weird...

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  • Jfdp

    Everyone feels like this at some time in their lives I gues. Just checking out the news on something like BBC Africa can depress yo in a heartbeat, and then theres, like you say, the "Fakeness" of everybody around you, The empty, sycophantic, vanity of some people can irritate the crap out of me, especially when that person is treated like a demi god by those around him/ her.

    I don't have much faith in humanity as a whole, but were not all bad, people are complicated, maybe your just seeing the negative side of them ,now this may sound clichéd but I noticed a huge change in people ounce I got tto know them through extra curricular activities in school ect. I also met new friends who where a million times better to be around with than my current social group

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  • howaminotmyself

    If you travel this world assuming everyone is going to be an ass, you will get your wish.

    I'm sorry you haven't seen or felt genuine kindness from strangers. I read an amazing article about the kindness of strangers that made me so happy. I'd like to share.

    A driver in Seattle noticed another driver sail through 3 lanes of traffic without signaling and was a bit annoyed. He went to get around the crazy driver and saw that he was slumped over the wheel, unconscious. So he quickly got in front of him, and forced the unconscious driver to rear end his vehicle and slowly brought the two vehicles to a stop. Thus preventing what could have easily been a tragic ending. The unconscious man survived. He and his family are grateful for the kindness and quick thinking of a fellow motorist.

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  • bebedoll96

    You may have had experiences with individuals who have let you down, not lived up to your expectations, not cared enough to show you that they care, etc. Due to past relationships failing, you seem to have an idea in your head that you aren't going to like anyone and that you don't like people in general. Rather then thinking this way, realize that not everyone is the same - there ARE a lot of great people out there that you aren't letting yourself see because of this generalization in your head.

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  • davegrohl

    i disagree with valkeer
    most people are disgusting
    but there are some other with good energy.
    i feel you, it's pretty sad when you're aware of what surrounds you.
    just try to be with good people, and you'll forget about this feeling

    maybe an online friend just to talk about your insights
    maybe, i don't know exactly

    hope it helps :)

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