I hate myself

I don't like myself, I'm a terrible person. I push all my friends away, I hurt people, strangers criticise me for no reason. They say I'm useless or single me out saying i was the only bad one. I spent 5 years isolated, I hate so much about the world. My parents split up and a boy who used to be my best friend looks right through me. I'm violent and extreme. I'm ugly and overweight, I'm a weirdo with no friends. I just want to have a new life so I can be somebody else. I always feel so sad like my life is wasted, I act in a really unsociable way and every person that was my friend hates me. I agree with them, I hate me too...

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Based on 82 votes (40 yes)
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Comments ( 16 )
  • Mando

    Someone once said that people with low self esteem often deserve it. In other words when you behave badly, you feel bad about yourself. You control how you behave and what you do. If you want to feel better about yourself, behave better. It is no big secret.

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  • NormalIsOverratedBeANinja

    If you're wanting to start over, try online. Find a website that's partly social, but has other things too, so that you can add people based on their personality and contributions on the site and don't just start out searching your family and friends. You can effectively start your life over that way, as many times as you want really. I was sliding into depression before I found my favorite site.

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    • ZoZo_ZiZi

      agreed.

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  • normalhuman

    I think it's just a phase. Think about what went wrong and what you want to do to change how you are right now. Look for people you can lean on, your best friend for example. Try to reach out to other people. Let all your frustrations out for once and be better. I for one felt crappy about myself for about 2 weeks. I made a blog and posted my feelings everyday until I felt better. Look for an outlet. Love yourself first before others can accept you. :)

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  • Fartyr

    You sound like me. I do need therapy. Maybe you should talk to someone? I pretty much avoid people because for the last 40 years they've just taken advantage of me and not given a rat 's ass. Better off without that type . I protect myself.

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  • ZoZo_ZiZi

    If you dont liek how you are and what you do dont do it. If you dont feel confident doing something why do it?

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  • dirtybirdy

    So then do something about it.

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  • SangoNyappy

    I feel exactly the same about myself but if you find something you like and what can you do often you will stop thinking about this and you will feel better. It worked for me.

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  • bigguy2010

    Put on some earphones, listen to your favorite music, and go for a walk. You will be amazed how much better you will feel if you do this every day.

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  • Thank you

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  • AvrilLavigne

    Don't be so bitter. You are not alone and you're not the only one. I felt that kind of situation too, but then I realized I was so special and I've got my great originality. And you too, you've got your special originality and personality and no one can ever change that. Look ahead and be optimistic. I'm here for you.

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    • Terence_the_viking

      Why do you have to go and make things so complicated.

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      • AvrilLavigne

        HAHA

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        • sYki

          “Always be a first rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of someone else.”

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          • AvrilLavigne

            I.DON'T.CARE. WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?

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  • Seahawks10

    Don't worry things will get better

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