I hate my partner for a few minutes after sex

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I am single, always have been, and I don't see a lot of sex and affection. But when I have sex I absolutely hate the poor woman for several minutes after my orgasm. I've never said anything but it is that feeling like if you could snap your fingers and she would be gone from existence *SNAP* you would! But when I am alone, and lonely, and dreaming of the perfect mate, I could just love and hug and snuggle on that lucky lady under the covers all day and never be near her enough. Wassup?

I am a MAN and I LIKE my partner immediately after sex. 27
I am a MAN and I HATE my partner immediately after sex. 7
I am a WOMAN and I LIKE my partner immediately after sex. 18
I am a WOMAN and I HATE my partner immediately after sex. 4
I don't use a partner for sex, but I hate myself when it is over. 10
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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Sounds like you're just using these chicks, treating them like just bodies instead of people. If you don't know someone very well in terms of being compatible and having affection for said person then after sex you probably don't have much use for the person. It's a kinda shitty way to be.

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    • junkbud
      9 years ago

      Thanks for the comment. I can see how you would think that. But no, I'm a pretty good guy...

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      • TheChakraMantra
        9 years ago

        That's funny.

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      • despuit
        9 years ago

        I thought I was a pretty good guy when I was younger too and boy was I is they were herded onto well any surface available. But yep I hated a lot of them after, is transferance of guilt/anger.

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        • junkbud
          9 years ago

          I didn't understand your entire reply, but I think you were correct in attributing the bad emotions to transference of guilt. Thank you for you comments.

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  • Avi
    9 years ago

    But why exactly do you hate her?
    ((I also hate people several minutes after they show me affection,but I don't really know why)).

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    • junkbud
      9 years ago

      Wow, I really didn't expect anyone else to 'get it.' Thanks for the reply. I don't know why, but it is an overwhelming (if shortlived) emotion. For what it's worth I was raised in a VERY 'churchy' fashion, so maybe it is a guilt thing if I had to guess.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    My first true love was raised catholic. I MEAN catholic; Sunday school, catholic school grades 1-12, church every possible opportunity/excuse; they would go.
    I really loved that girl, but the only time she didn't feel guilty about "living in sin", having sex outside of marriage and all the other horrible brainwashing that fucking church does to it's 'believers' was during sex. A few precious minutes where she could be free. Needless to say, we had a lot of sex but the rest of the time her desire to be punished for her 'sinful' ways, was a horrible way to live and our relationship did not survive.
    Sad to say, her desire for punishment led to an arrest for a kilo of heroin and a long stretch in prison. She was well into her 30's before she found a way to exist without constantly needing to be punished.

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    • green_boogers
      9 years ago

      It's sad to see people get destroyed by religion. Some denominations lock people into ignorance by demonizing evolution and cosmology.

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    • Avant-Garde
      9 years ago

      I'm sorry that it couldn't work out between you two. It makes me glad that I was ever fully raised in Catholcism. Then again, the other branches I was raised in caused me some harm too.

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  • abigdick
    9 years ago

    After sex, I love my partner for pleasing me and knowing that I have pleased her. If we have sex on Saturday morning, we stay naked the rest of the day (if possible). Since I am very visual and my wife is very attractive, she wants me to be happy. So, she will do almost anything I ask her.

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  • kelili
    9 years ago

    I had a bf who acted strange after sex and I questionned my male friends about it and all of them without exception told I that after orgasm they felt some kind of disgust, hate for the girl. They couldn't quite describe the feeling.
    I dated a guy twice my age and he was very open and we talked about everything. I asked him the same question and he answered that indeed it was true but with age and experience you come to accept and overcome this. I could write more but Im on a mob.

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    • thegypsysailor
      9 years ago

      That's interesting. I have never had any of those feelings. Never. I have no idea where that would come from. Thank the gawds that no one fucked me up like that!

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