I hate my mother

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I'm 36 years old and I hate my mother with a passion. She is loud, rude, sarcastic, heartless, critizes me every chance she gets but treats my brothers very well. Anything could happen but she always blamed me, always beat me. Never deffended me even when I was right. You can imagine how much O have to say being 36 years old. I juat feel better not being the only one. People in Puerto Rico live their lives by "what will they say". She treats my cousins great amd gives them compliments but me Im just shit to here and I hate that it bothers me still.

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  • bellerophon
    8 years ago

    At 35, I can honestly say I love my mother, but I cannot abide her. I only tolerate her because of my two daughters, whom she dotes on, but as a mother she hasn't ever truly wanted a son and it's very obvious. Multiple abandonments as a 10 year old and a teenager, left me hanging high and dry during my depression and actually emigrated when I was homeless and bordering on suicidal.

    She's the type that tries to come across all decent and caring, but only does things/gives money to appear like a good person or have something to hold over me.

    A heart to heart would not work, to resolve our differences. She's too wrapped up in herself to even admit any wrongdoing, pretty much like my useless, selfish, destructive father.

    I've concluded that I don't need parents, and haven't required them for a long time. All I've had is their emotional baggage and neuroses to take on.

    My mother is a grandmother to my two children, and that's it. She gets on with my wife, but even though my wife secretly can't stand her, she can put a better face on than me.

    Oh well, such is life, the big shit sandwich.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    I feel for you! I know it sounds cliché, but I've always felt that my sister was my mom's favorite.

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  • donotmockme
    9 years ago

    I'm not too fond of mine either but don't really hate her. I'd say this is pretty normal. Maybe have a heart to heart if you haven't already tried.

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