I hate my mom so much.

Since I was about 7, I have always liked my dad better than my mom. My mom is intelligent and has a kind personality and always helping others and donating to hospitals and things like that. But she always makes these jokes that aren't even funny and also embarrassing. And because she is always embarrassing me in front of my friends, that also makes her annoying. I know she never means to embarrass me, but I still just don't like her and feel uncomfortable around her. I also always want to be mean to her (which I do feel guilty about) and be against her.

Your mom is just trying to be funny, she still loves you. 20
Your mom is purposely trying to annoy you. 2
You have problems and it's not normal to hate your mom. 6
You are too emotional, so it's not her fault. 13
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Comments ( 10 )
  • riffraffy

    Cringe = self shame.

    The problem isn't with your mother, it's your social anxiety. You sound like a stereotypical teenaged girl—and most grow out of it once they gain self-esteem. Better sooner than later.

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  • cutegalsly

    I think we all have been embarassed by our parents at some point but that's not a reason to hate them.. Atleast not like that.

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  • Ellenna

    Most teenagers are embarrassed by at least one of their parents and/or other family members: you'll grow out of it sooner if you stop hating her. She doesn't deserve to be hated because you're a self-conscious teenager.

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  • I think you should really tell her about this and also have a long argument with yourself why you would act this way to your mother. Not ok.

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  • mysistersshadow

    Stay away from her?

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    • bobobob

      Yeah, encourage the OP to stay away from his/her own mom when she hasn't done anything other than something that can probably be talked out and healed. Family wrecker.

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      • mysistersshadow

        Presumably the OP is a adult. Adults don't have to put up with family members they don't like. I gave my opinion if you or the OP doesn't like it your both free to ignore it.

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        • bobobob

          It's shit warped advice even if OP s adult to encourage him/her to stay away before even trying to work it out... its not like abuse happened then stay away would be good advice. Get your head out of you ass.

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          • mysistersshadow

            How do you know what the OP has or hasn't done? Its my honest opinion that if you don't get along with some one even family the best thing to do is to stay away from them. I cut my family loose and it was the best decision I ever made. Maybe your experience has been different but we don't know that either becos you haven't given the OP any help.

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            • bobobob

              OP try to talk to your mom and tell her how it makes you feel. Don't listen to mysistershadow. She is a horrible person who wants to break up youf family.

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