I hate my mom

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as the heding goes, i hate my mother to the ends of the world. im 18, and i live wth just her. she never lets me go out or meet friends or even joing bloody ngos's cause she doesnt want me going out. shes always screaming and she has never hugged me can you even believe that? she's so lovely to her boyfriend but its like she's the opposite to me. i feel like im just a duty for her, she just needs to keep me alive. she has never been there for me emotionally. in the past, on many ocassions ive gone to her crying asking for advice or just some moral support but she always just told me to leave her alone cause she 'cant deal with me right now'. im sick of her and i cant move out until 4 more years and i honestly don't think i can handle this, ill get depressive.

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  • Yaboiipauly420
    7 years ago

    Get a job.

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    • hisavondays
      7 years ago

      im in india, and getting a job here when you're 18 is next to impossible. no one gives u a job when youre unqualified, and the type of job id get (mcd or kfc etc) is not enough to sustain me if i move out. plus college fee.

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  • DepressedStar33
    7 years ago

    I know exactly how you're feeling, I was emotionally and verbally abused as a kid and it got worse with every year.
    A parent like your non might not listen to you if you try to talk to her, but you should try.
    After all, you ARE AN ADULT, and you have the rights to make your own disision.
    Your mother has no right to control and ignore you like that, no matter how old you are.
    My advice is to get out of that house as soon as possible, ignore your mom says ing that you need to wait 4 more more years. You are an adult and adults can make their decisions on their own. If all fails, talk to someone else you know about your problem.
    And if she ever hits you, IN ANY WAY. Call the police IMMEDIATELY.
    Go out of your confront zone, be yourself, achieve your goals, go to the school that you want, and do t let anything stop you. You Can Do It.
    Life is too short to be unhappy. :)

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    • hisavondays
      7 years ago

      im indian, our parents hit us all the time. they have the 'right' to. police doesnt say anything. plus in our culture, it isnt easy to move out. im 18 and wont get a job to pay for my college im currently in plus the money i need to support myself independatly. moving out without her consent is next to impossible anyway. idk how to explain it in our culture, its hard, you cant do things your way, your parents control your life. it sucks

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  • mrbrownfinger2
    7 years ago

    I hate you mom too, but that's because the skank owes me $20

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  • happywheels
    7 years ago

    Run away from home

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    • Yaboiipauly420
      7 years ago

      No, hats stupid. Dont run away a lot of bad things could happen out there.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    Why do you have to wait four years to get out of this unhealthy situation?

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    • hisavondays
      7 years ago

      i have started Undergrad in a college. its a 4 year course. so i cant leave before i finish it. i wil definately leave for masters. but i just cant bear her anymore

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