I hate my mom

I hate my mom,I know this since I can remember.I freaking hate her and people think I'm a horrible person for hating you own mother.I personally think it's ridiculous how people think that just because someone gave birth to you that it gives them power over you.Their human beings just like you,and if they can't respect you,like you would respect them,then why put up with it.

My mom is SUCH A HYPOCRITE! If she says something about another thing and then I catch her saying about something else and I tell her she freaking gets furious and starts calling me horrible names.Im a type of person who wants respect just as I would give them.SHE NEVER RESPECTS ME WHATSOEVER! I have a stepdad and he's cool,but what freaking annoyed me is that he always takes her side,no matter how rude she is to me or how wrong she is about a subject.So how do you think that makes me feel.I hate coming home,you know how sad that is.To hate your own home because people their treat you like shit.

My mom always acts like the innocent one and acts like I'm the bad guy all the time!Like freaking grow up!She blames me for everything and calls me names!But when she does it she feeling laughs and doesn't do anything!She always screams at me for having a DAMN "C" AS A GRADE!(And by the way she never even freaking went to school)She freaking compares me to other children and how smart they are,how do you think that makes me feel!She says that's everything is so easy,like if it's nothing.And she never even went to school!

My dad left us at a young age but I lived my entire childhood with him.Even if he left us for another country and his mom at least HE SHOWED ME LOVE.He is the most caring and amazing dad I ever have.My mom and him hate each other but I don't get in that.He always encouraged me to do better and felt like I was unstoppable.I had so much confidence but when I left to live with my mom she destroyed me completely.I have freaking self-esteem issues and anxiety that even sucks more(for me).We would have meetings at school with the principle about my grades and how I was failing and she brought up about him and how he left me,and she know s that's a sensitive topic and makes me cry.When ever were in an argument she brings him up out of the lie,even if the subject is not about him.She uses that to tear me down.She once screamed at me to be another woman's child because I wasn't cleaning the closet and I stood up for my self.I can't take it anymore,I'm so tired.Its so sad and ridiculous that I'm prying every day that something will kill me or at least for these FOUR YEARS so I can leave the damn house and never see her again. :(

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  • thegypsysailor

    Another one. That makes 789 this year. I guess there are 789 moms that didn't even get a card for mother's day.

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  • I_Hate_My_Life123

    I don't get along with my mother either, not everyone does. Just keep in mind that living with your family is temporary, life won't be that way forever.

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  • Gooddaddy

    Help your stepdad out and find a new woman for him.

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  • rondona333

    I totally hate my mom, because she is a total bitch, she is like so disturbing and annoying. When I get good grades in school, she is like, "Oh, Okay, that's good", but when I get bad grades ,oh no you have to run because she is going to whip your ass, and tell you about how is she and my dad wasting their money (even tho it's not theirs, is just his money and by that I mean my dad's money). I really hate her, I DON'T CARE IF SHE IS THE WOMAN  WHO GAVE ME BIRTH, she is totally wrong in everything. My brother has 5 years old and he is the DEVIL, but little, and my mom is always telling me that, if my brother wants something then I have to give it to him, if he needs somethings then I have to search for him, if he has a problem then I have to solve it. MOM I HATE YOU WITH MY WHOLE HEART!!!!!!!!

    I just had to tell someone this, I had to get this off my back, I could not keep this for myself.She is a Fucking bitch (excuse my potty mouth).

    Peace Everyone

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  • CPI96

    I can totally relate to your story. My mom is a non-sense,illogical,cold-hearted stupid ass motherfucker. I can't stand being with her, she always complain about everything. She has zero confidence and self esteem, she lives to impress others. She always boasts for every little thing she has. I am an A class student, and she tells to everyone how good I am at school even to strangers she just talked like for about 5 minutes. She always tell me if I ever slip in my grades she will kill herself...

    But sometimes I think like, "she's my mom right, I am supposed to be loving her not hate her?" and I start loving her and after a while she starts complaining, starts putting me down and other mentally horrible things, then I start to hate her again.

    So my solution to this situation is:-
    First don't hate her, try to limit the time you spend with her.

    Second, it's not like you are going to be with her forever and ever, so have some hope that one day you will be detached from your toxic mother(but still don't hate her, just love her even if it's difficult)

    Third, explain to her about her behavior, how it's disturbing you and how it's mentally affecting you.

    And finally just know that, just because she gave birth to you doesn't mean she has total control over you. You are the driver of your own life and you should take full responsibility for everything that happens in your own life.

    Peace

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  • Roundtable1

    Shut up and love your mom no matter how fucked up she is.

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  • Beasty-man

    It's normal to feel it ! I have the same problem with my father

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  • aloneliness_

    I can COMPLETELY relate to this. Ignore her existence. She doesn't deserve the sorrow. Be happy with yourself and do you. disregard what she has to say. Preform better at school FOR YOU. You deserve the best. She doesn't.

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  • flyingnostalgia

    Good for you

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