I hate my kids

I feel sorry for your child

I've you're not ready to have kids. Don't have them.

he needs protection from people who might forget that he is a baby, you need help before you snap and damage his psych at this important stage of his life...btw where is the father?

Of course you hate kids. Children are the root of all evil. haven't you ever read Lord Of the Flies?.

Yeah, my mother was too lazy to raise me as well, now I'm fucked. Fuck you OP.

Kids need limits and rules and you are doing this child no favors to give in to his every wish. You are the fucking boss, he isn't and you need to let him know it. I'm not in favor of "beating" a child that young, but if he requires a spanking once in a while to get the point across, then by all means see that he gets the message.
If you continue on this path of irresponsible parenting, you will probably either desert your kids or harm yourself and loose them to the system.
It is time to take charge and be the ADULT of the family. It will make your life easier and your children will grow up knowing that they need to be responsible to the rules and no one gets everything their way, all the time.

Remember that your kid never asked to be born into this world. He is just being what children are: little annoying poopheads! (I say that endearingly). Being a single mom, it is probably very normal to be extremely stressed and I think you need some support and a mini break every day to help you feel less stressed.

I hope you connect with him. I mean, I'm no parent here, but I am sure food water and toys are not the only ingredients necessary to raise a child. He needs your love, interest, patience, and persistence as well. Viewing him as a burden on your life is extremely unfair to him, because it is not his fault, it is yours and his dads.

What was he thinking when he went to go outside? He is three years old. Good lord, he doesn't have your complex thought process and reasoning skills yet! He was probably thinking that he wanted to go outside. Curious behavior is something to be encouraged in my opinion, as long as it is safe. It is impressive he used his firetruck in such a creative manor to solve a problem.

But you are too stressed out to marvel him. Take a break, cool down, call someone to vent or something, and chill out woman.

Do you have any family or friends with kids you can talk to? I don't have kids but you should set ground rules, giving kids all they want and more is never good. They should behave and be rewarded. I'm sure you are a good parent but being a single parent must be hard.

Just try and make him behave and when he does as you say he is rewarded. If he starts shouting then ignore him. Try different things and see what works.

I hope some other mothers can give you some better advice :)

Do you have a friend or relative you can talk to or share your frustration with?

You do sound stressed and depressed. Please will you go with your child(ren) and see a doctor or other healthcare professional? There is help for you out there.

The biggest problem I read is that you give him whatever he wants.

He probably loves you.

"I hate my kids"

Kids, that is plural
But yet you have one, therefore it is singular. The title of this post should be "I hate my kid."

Aw. Just show them who's the boss! Also have house rules that EVERYONE should follow. Especially. Your. Son. You have given him too much rights, so he thinks he can do whatever he wants. Also try to be patient with him. He's only three anyway. Don't worry. He'll grow up to be less... "troublesome"... As he grows, teach him to be independent and self-reliant and to help his mommy out so that he would grow like that and give you less stress!

I was raised by my dad for only seven years and the rest was my mom. Along with my sister, we stressed her too, but as we grew older, we learned to be more responsible and to help around the house. We learned how to fold the small blankets when we were 2. So if we did it, I believe your son can, too. Just teach him, but it takes time and effort.

Then why did u hav kids???? I understand ur stress though!

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Give him for adoption. Mothers need patience and sacrifise, that which your mother had to raise a selfish spoiled brat like you but you seem to lack that patience so dont deserve to raise kids...

You need to rest. Maybe the Dad could take him for a day or two.