I hate my husband

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What can I say? Like most couples, through the years and all the problems we've gradually lost romance, lost respect and lately downright dislike each other. He nags and is never satisfied with anything and drinks and then gets belligerent. He thinks I'm a slob and irresponsible and I have no interest in sex ( with him...anyway why would I be attracted to someone who constantly puts me down?)
The only reason we're together is because of our son . We don't want to fuck him up while he's young, once he's in his own I can't wait to be on my own and have nobody tell me what to do and bossing me around.

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Based on 30 votes (19 yes)
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  • charli.m
    8 years ago

    Having an unstable home life with parents who are miserable and don't love each other (not to mention you say yiur husband becomes nasty when he drinks) fucks kids up far more often than divorced parents who are more stable and happy on their own.

    I'm not advocating divorce, it's not something to be taken lightly, but if one or both of you are not able or willing to make it work, prolonging it only makes it worse, majority of the time.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      We may try counseling but I don't know if he would change.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    Wow. What did you do so horribly wrong in your past life, that you've been consigned to a living hell in this one?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      I think it's because when I met him he was still married. Part of me " deserves" this.

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        Nobody deserves that. Leave him and save your sanity.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          Well he lied about being married when we first met. A few months later he told me he " want divorced yet" so he was dishonest from the get go. I feel bad now for what I did but if I could go back I wish we'd never met:(

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          • thegypsysailor
            8 years ago

            There's no way to change the past, but your future can be whatever you want it to be.

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      • ThingOne
        8 years ago

        Part of you just made a bad decision. Leave him. This will not get better.

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        Leave him anyway. Yeah, karma is a bitch.

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  • flyingnostalgia
    8 years ago

    Good!

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  • janevolturi98
    8 years ago

    poor my mom . she also has to face the same thing everyday . when my dad was in prison , my mom really hope he'll change but no . now she is mentally abused and started to become mean to her children because of that fucking pig son of a bitch . i really hope that my dad will die ASAP !!!!

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  • Akell
    8 years ago

    Get out of the marriage NOW before it takes a big toll on your son.

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  • snarkygirl
    8 years ago

    Well if there's no cheating or abuse maybe if you both try to get along or get some therapy.

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  • theseeker
    8 years ago

    If you're in a messed up relationship, then no matter what just get out ASAP. Life is too short to waste your time being unhappy when you know you could be much happier.

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  • "&,**$%$**&
    8 years ago

    You did well

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