I hate my father

Hey kid, I would kill for a dad who only made fun of me and beat me. The Ukrainian bastard that sired my ass mind fucked me into paranoia. Parents divorced when I was 5 and ever since my old man has been drilling into my head things I shouldn't have even been aware of. Setting mental traps so that I'd have to be constantly on guard for anything that I said or did that could be used to manipulate me. Being suspicious of my sisters and other relatives, whether they were really with me or with him. And every kind gesture from him demanded that I give complete fealty and treat my mother and anyone else outside of the P***k family like enemies that need to be mentally destroyed and shunned. Take one of my sisters; she left him cause he grabbed her by the neck and threw her up the stairs, after moving in with mom the entire side of his family "exiled" her. I'm serious they would not even look at her, the only thing they did was abuse her. And only after she became a hopeless wreck both mentally and physically only then did they come to help. Now they've got her on a leash where she does every little demeaning thing they ask out of fear and promises of being taken care of like my other P***k spoil sister.
Definition of Hate: Where one experiences permanent and immediate irritation, agitation, and severe anger to the very presence of another individual. Yep according to definition I Fucking Hate the disgusting fat old miserable sac of shit that doesn't care about anyone or anything beyond their material or political value to him.

Well i had a lot of problems with my dad he was a real asshole to me would make fun of me when i was younger for not being able to read well and he use to hit me frequently. What worked for me was i just found a few good close friends and just opened up to them and i felt a lot better after that. I hope everything works out for you.

i don;t like my dad too!

Why do you think he doesn't love you? I don't know your situation (ie whether you're living with him, have regular contact, whatever) but try to keep in mind that if you do live together it's very easy for tempers to flare and to say something you don't mean.
However, I know from personal experience that sometimes people just don't get on with their families, no matter how hard they try, whether it be because the parents are abusive/ distant or because they're simply incompatible personality-wise. If you're still too young/ skint to move out, just try your best to focus on when you can leave, and be as civil as you can to him in the meantime until you're able to. It won't do any good hating him, it'll just mess you up inside, trust me.

Neither does mine. I replaced him.

The man who impregnated my mother is the biggest ass on all of planet earth. He deserves to die a painful death. I hate his guts, and am so proud of myself for not strangling him.

I hate my dad, and believe its nothing to with being unloved daddy issues. I admit I am hard on him, but he deserves it and created this situation himself.

Some people are just not fit to be parents and my father certainly isn't. He is by no means the worst father, he doesn't drink, smoke, take drugs or anything like that.

The problem is he is indifferent and has shown absolutely NO interest in either myself or my brother when growing up. My father is withdrawn, vacant and extremely boring. He used to be violent and has always, even to this day, exhibited odd and strange behaviours. He is now a grandfather of two little girls and he shows absolutely no interest or pride in them either. There is just some part of his brain that doesn't work properly and had I known this even at the age of 15 I could have spared myself a lot of pain.

My first memory of my dad was hiding from him, he was completely out of his depth as a parent and did all the wrong things at all the wrong times. He used to beat the shit of me when I was a child, and just two months ago he punched me in the face. He is 70 years old now lol

He has no friends, he doesn't go out and just sits and watches the News channels on tv all day long. He has been exactly like this for as long as I can remember. A boring, depressing, strange old man He was 41 when I was born and he still wears the same clothes, has the same comb over baldy hair do and sideburns. He is exactly the same now as he was 20 years ago. When his two grandchildren were born he wouldn't go near them, didn't want to hold them and avoided them like the plague. I told my mother I noticed this behaviour and she said he was scared of them. I found this quite hilarious since he has had two children of his own albeit never showing interest in them. I watch how other men behave around their children and grandchildren, and every man I know is head over fucking heels in love with his children or grandchildren. My dad just would not know what to do. A noisy playful toddler would be far beyond his abilities to deal with or understand.

I can tell you all the things in the world my dad hates, but never have I heard him express a love of someone or something. Never. He even told me I was a loser with a loser job right after he punched me in the face 2 months ago. All my life he has expressed hatred for the things I love myself - be it the music I listen, a tv show I like to watch, a place I enjoy visiting on holiday. He hates it all. His only interests are aeroplanes, the news and his computer. If he has a love of anything it would only be these things.

And when he punched me I was forced to defend myself as he came back a for a second swing. I knocked him on his ass, burst his lip and bruised his forehead. I cannot BELIEVE I was forced to defend myself against a 70 year old man. Unfucking believable!!!! And I was even feeling bad about it. But you should never feel bad for defending yourself whoever it may be from. I live by the principle that you must defend yourself in any situation you come under attack.

So yes I fucking hate my dad. He has brought nothing but depression and misery into my home as a child. He has managed to drag everyone else down with him just to make himself feel better. I really cannot begin to describe how strange his behaviour can be, I can only describe it as mental - absolutely mental.

He deserves to be hated because he has never once shown any kind of love for his children or any interest in them at all. There are many people out there who want children but cant have them for some reason or another. These are people who would make AMAZING parents - loving joyful parents. But my dad having something people like this deserve has thrown it all away. He knows I hate him and he doesn't care. If I were a father and my son grew up hating me I would be heart broken and devastated.

I know I wouldnt be here without him, but he really was unsuitable to have children with. Why my mother chose him I will never know. A cold, depressing, strange and often violent man should be fucking castrated in my view. This is just one more thing we don't need to add to gene pool!

Just because someone has children doesn't mean they are a loving parent. Many couples have children because one of them wants kids and the other relents, or through and unplanned pregnancy or just through laziness - having sex and being irresponsible with the consequences.

My dad is a biker unloving prick

my dads ok its my mum who doesnt love me ='( both suck i guess

hello. yeah it sounds as usually. i hate him with all my heart. i am from ukraine. my dad drinks sometimes. we live in his flat because we have not our own. i wait when i turn 18 and try go to another country and take my mom with me. sometimes he hits me. i feel like succer because of i can't take my mom and get out of here. i just stuck here. i feel like i am nothing i can't do anything..i am just 16 but f*ck i should do something..but what??