I hate my father?

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My father is the most person i hated in my life like he forces me to do anything he wants without a reason just by force my mother also does he is also stingy and a bit selfish all we hear from is shouting and violence and he always scared me i feel really happy when i'm far away from him i try to speak to him but he ignores me and he is an evader also when i ask him a hard question
is that hatred normal?

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Based on 25 votes (15 yes)
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  • kingofcarrotflowers
    9 years ago

    You mentioned violence, never forget, and only if it's something you want, one day you can be far away, of course it's not as simple as waking up one day and leaving it can be a long and difficult process as well as confusing. My mum and I left my dad, despite the fact that he was an abusive alcohlic i felt a small amount of duty to stay as he was my Dad even though I hated him and he loved to feel his fist against my face because it's how I was conditioned by him and society to feel, you always stick by family.

    That's rubbish, as i've said on iin before being a family member doesn't give you the right to abuse those around you and still see them. Of course, i'm biased, and leaving isn't always the answer but you know your own situation, I don't but if the abuse is to the point that you feel it would be safest for you and your mum to leave just know that there are people to help you. I'm sorry to hear about yours and your mum's situation

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    yes

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  • Elmsangel
    8 years ago

    I understand what you are going through, I've been there, and I'm still going through it to this day.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    normal, if he shows only hate

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    You should love your father, no matter what. He is your sire, the man who created you (well maybe, do you look like the post man?), and he deserves your respect and obedience. Friends may come and go but family is forever. Gotta love your family.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      someone will probably say, but you have access to the internet , the reason the internet is here because he uses it, if he doesn't he wouldn't even think about internet access

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      What if he shows hate then? he hates the family and irresponsible if you say he works for money so he can feed us but he's total stingy i can't love someone who hate me , like he never advised me all he wants is orders that is for him not for us

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