I hate my family lunches

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I'm 20yo and I hate my family (my grandparents and uncles are the worst). I never felt like I belong in this family at all. Every mounth or so I am "invited" for one of those family lunches (it never ends before 7pm)! That is for sure the most horrible day of the month, I almost never talk to anyone or say a word, I feel like a retarded there...

I'm not a nerd or an antisocial guy, but I hate them so much that I don't feel like sharing anything from my life with them, and they feel the same way about me... I guess

Anyone else with the same problem?

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  • felitmignon101
    12 years ago

    Stay home, better yet dont even go problem solved .

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  • TehPurpleOne
    13 years ago

    I understand how you feel. I don't like my minor family members much. I mainly stuck to my mom, my dad, and my brother. Now, I'm just with my dad and brother, for tragic events in the past. I don't socialize with anyone on my dad or mom's side of the family. They don't seem to care about us, so why should we care about them? That's how we feel, anyway. They're selfish, and I would rather not talk to them much anyway. I still do like my mother's best friend, who is also my Godmother, and I suppose I consider her the only minor family member I still do like at all.

    But I understand where you're coming from. I hate going to family reunion barbecues and stuff like that. I've come to realize that those people are jerks. I can't just put my trust in people I don't know that well, anyway.

    So, yes, I would say you're normal.

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  • tim5ny
    13 years ago

    Bring a gun next time.

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  • Senken
    14 years ago

    you hate them for what reason.

    how bout getting into just one regular conversation. and you don't HAVE to go.

    *facepalm*

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  • wannarocktheworld
    14 years ago

    well shitty dogmas of a socially circuited and slaved reality

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  • Tallerico500
    14 years ago

    It's a shame you don't get along with your family. Their what's most important in life. I can honestly say I get along with my family great. Have you talk to certain members of your family that you don't get along with and discuss what issues you all are having?

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    • SolwayFirth2
      12 years ago

      Just stop with that holier-than-thou shit. Families do more damage than they do good.

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      • Tallerico500
        12 years ago

        Whatever asshole. Just trying to help this guy. Did your dad beat or touch you or something? Sounds like you have/had it pretty bad.

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