I hate my family

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i used to love my family and be proud of it. now i hate my family. i find all our members defective, incapable. i always search for negative things in every member. even in myself. i hate myself also. i find my father weak. he never beat me since my childhood days. my parents love me. but i think they love me too much and that their love has spoiled me. i find my mom irritating and too emotional. my sisters shout all the time. i think my father should scold us when needed but he doesnt. i find him incapable. i just hate my family. IIN? thanks

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  • smitty217
    10 years ago

    Feel the same way. Mother's too over-emotional (she'll cry over a drip of milk) and she's always thinking something's wrong. She's always asking "what's wrong? Are you okay? What's the the matter?" I know it's her job and she's just worried but WHY does there ALWAYS have to be something wrong?!? Why can't she ask "What's right?". There's just SO much negativity that I got to the point where I try my best to avoid her. I try to help but her emotions just seem so fragile that I'm afraid if I upset her in any way by telling her that I'm worried, she might lose it completely. And my dad's no help. He turns a cheek to the whole damn thing and acts so oblivious. For that, I've lost a ton of respect for him as a man. Idk, I just HATE what my family has become over the last few years. The people I thought of once as strong-willed and unyielding are just crumbling to pieces day by day and I despise them for letting that happen to themselves.

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  • sunoy14
    13 years ago

    thanks guys.

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  • sunoy14
    13 years ago

    thanks guys. i find your advices very valuable.
    actually never ever cared about these things earlier. thanks.

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  • Trismegistus
    13 years ago

    Tell me about it.There is a thing common to all kinds of psychos,both diagnosed or undiagnosed by traditional psychiatry.
    They turn on their own kind.
    Therefore:They are already gone.Extinct.
    So long!

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  • kushkitten
    13 years ago

    you shouldnt hate them because who they are, but instead you should educate them on what you feel is appropriate for your family. give them advice. i used to feel the same way about my family i hated them so much but now i know that they are not as wise as i am and they dont know any better. consider yourself the bigger person and try to put some order in your family.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    use them as a springboard into life

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  • mprocida
    13 years ago

    Just start yelling at those who piss you off

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