I hate my dad..to a point where id like to pack up and leave

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i hate my dad.i live in a country where the husband rules the show.He abuses my mom physically and verbally and has even hit me once.For my mom,leaving him is not an option.it got so bad that my mom attempted suicide.since then things have slightly changed.me and my sister are older now and we raise our voices whenever needed.we are both teenagers so it doesnt really create enough of an impact.He blames everything on my mom.even when its not her fault.He keeps saying we shouldnt be like her,though i'd be proud to be half the person she is.I love my mom and my sister.i feel as if we are all walking on our toes so he doesnt get pissed off.im tired of that life.When will it change?When can i stop pretending?

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Based on 46 votes (32 yes)
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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    "When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much the old man had learned in seven years.”

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    • sexysonofsam
      8 years ago

      I concur, be careful what you wish for it might not be as great as what you first imagined it would be!

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    • thegvpsysailor
      8 years ago

      And keep in mind too, when i was 14 Abraham Lincoln was still president!

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      • jaymesfairless
        8 years ago

        wtf?

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  • JakobWithaK77
    8 years ago

    I would leave, but then again I'd stick around to see if she turns out ok. Personally, while your dad was asleep, I would sneak out with your sister and your mother and hide. I would recommend coming to America because we don't allow that shit. And also, I wouldn't have let him touch your mom if i were you, but i understand that you couldn't do anything. I fell sorry for you and I hope that everything turns out ok. Best of luck

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  • jaymesfairless
    8 years ago

    I'd kill a mother fucker if he fucked with my mom.

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago

    There is a reason why fathers act the way they do!

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Where are ya'll from?

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  • noid
    8 years ago

    Your dad sounds very difficult.

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