I hate my brother soo much!

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I have a brother who is 17 and i hate him soo much! The reason to this is he is always trying to find fault with me. This computer im using i bought it with my own money, and he CONTROLS everything! He cant even let me play my own computer as he told me he wanted to play. When i tried to argue and fight back, he will abuse me physically, as in slap me or hit me in the stomach.

I really can't stand it, its soo painfull. And he always complain to my mum about just the slightest things that i did wrong. My mom just believed everything he said and always protect the wrong person. Im dissapointed that she can't treat me the way she treated my brother. She always give in when it comes to him. wtf! Never in my entire teen years have i got any presents from him.

He was always giving me threats to not tell mom that he skipped school and all, if i did that im gonna die.

I seriously can't stay in this house. I can't comunicate with them or whatever, just looking at his stare makes me wanna take a knife and stab him. Yes, i have thought of killing him. SERIOUSLY. I just feel like nobody really understand me. Im preparing to work and i want to move out of this house when im already legal.

I hate him soo much! He told me 'even though you are my blood sister, i still dont give a damn sh*t about you.' Such a ****in b**ch! Im really am gonna kill him, if he is trying to kill me first.

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  • PoisonFlowers
    14 years ago | pl

    Is it normal that you hate him? YES. I feel for you. How old are you? Get outta there as soon as you can before someone gets hurt, seriously :/ ((bigs hugs))

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  • notgood
    13 years ago

    listen, i am having exactly the same situation. i feel that am reading things that i wrote when i went through your passage. anyway: i found ignoring is the best way, if he sees you weak, he will be glad. that is why i choosed to ignore him, even though am burning from inside. i do what he asks me to do, but if he humilated me once again or shouted at me, my hand will be ready for a slap...trust me: you will not get much help if you went out telling your parents...all the luck ;)

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  • asmdude
    13 years ago

    dude its the same with me and my older bro he thinks he is just it and shit. today he just lost me $50000 because he owed me $1000. so he took another $4000 from me, he copied my safe key. and bet it in a football game

    i know what u thinking ... what a prick!!!!

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    • quinny123
      12 years ago

      i hate my bro aswell.he so selfish and so what he is a coach to me.he is a little blister

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  • AllaBelle10
    13 years ago

    My brother is the SAME way! He is only nice to me when his girlfriend is over, and is even worse when his friends are over! In fact, I don't invite my friends over to my house because I don't want my brother to hurt me in frount of them. Yes, I do think it's normal. Very normal!

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  • Flrdanative90
    12 years ago

    Yeah. It's normal. I hate my brother with a passion. He's a low life piece of shit who's going nowhere in life and still has the nerve to put me down. I wish somebody would knock him out and put him in his place. Glad I'm not the only one who feels that way about their brother. He's an honest prick.

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  • MFLFLC28
    12 years ago

    I completely agree. I hate my brother so much, he is so stubborn and will never admit to being wrong. He is always trying to poke holes in everything I say and makes me feel really bad when there are other people around by humiliating me, and he keeps insulting and hitting me. He is such a perfectionist and needs everything to go exactly as he wants it to to stop him getting angry and attacking me. I have a couple of scars and a broken rib from him and he still finds a way of making me feel that I am the one who attacks and annoys him. I do think it is very normal to hate him as I hate my brother too.

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  • Miterro
    13 years ago

    Call CPS on your parents.

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  • sophiesheppardx.
    13 years ago

    i hate my brother to tbh...

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Whoaa this is the story of my life. Except it's been going on since I was 3. He's 2 yes older than me. I totally relate to you.

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  • Bells
    14 years ago

    Like said, talk your parents. If it doesn't work, try talking to any adult that will hear you (uncle aunt, teacher, anyone) to see how they can help you. And start to completely ignore your bro, so he can see that you dont really care when he tries to annoy or be mean to you.

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  • CrystalMoonlight
    14 years ago

    Tell your mom how you feel and what he has been doing, if she doesn't belive you, tell your dad, if he doesn't belive you, get a job and move out.

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  • peterrabbyt3
    7 years ago

    If you suck my cock and let me fuck you I will take care of you forever and love you.

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  • doglover2012
    11 years ago

    I hate my brother too! He still acts so ****ing mean to me!!! I want to kill him!!! He does the same stuff as ur brother! I just cant find a way 2 get over it!!!! :( I have tried everything!!! :(

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  • allibaum11
    12 years ago

    I know the feeling. Unfortunately, the only thing you can do is break all ties and get as far away as possible. I am in the same situation and now work with my brother and cant escape. Nothing works. I've passed the point of no return. My brother is almost 30 now and nothing ever changed. My husband is going to see about a job transfer and that will get me out of here and thats the only thing that will ever work

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  • 123sherif100
    12 years ago

    i hate him to i wish he could die right now! mom and dad ground me and they never ground him. he is like the biggest idiot on earth!

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  • everlily76
    13 years ago

    I feel the same way about my brother a lot of the time. The trick is, to act like you don't care, even if you do. Because if he knows it doesn't affect you he will get bored and leave you alone. But YOU MUST tell an adult. You can't let him abuse you this badly and then he gets away with it because then he's won.

    Best of Luck! :)

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    • allibaum11
      12 years ago

      that does not always work. for people like my brother, ignoring him makes it worse. Thats very bad advice

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      • everlily76
        12 years ago

        depends on the person i suppose.

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  • uzaer
    12 years ago

    lol .... dont worry ... make some friends who are good listeners and try not to react on your brothers foolish acts .... ignore him completely and be a "who cares?" sort of person ... u are really frustrated and need friends who are good listeners ... try not to feel complexed and always keep a positive approach

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