I hate my brother

Growing up I was always disciplined a lot and was given the tough love treatment. My parents didn't really help me with anything and whenever I did anything bad my punishment was pretty harsh. I don't resent them for this because I feel as if it helped me become a better person in the long run but I fail to understand why they did things so differently with my brother. He has always received the opposite treatment.

Right now I am 19 and my brother is 16. I work everyday from 9-5, saving for my college tuition. I still live with my parents and I know that's kinda sad but I have to right now. My brother is a high school drop out, skipped his entire first year and didn't end up going the next year either. He sits at home daily smoking pot and sitting around his room. Whenever he's not doing that he is constantly yelling at the entire family and abusing our youngest brother because he has no money for pot/cigarettes.

I am becoming pretty tired of the kid to be honest. He keeps breaking walls and furniture, which is really stupid. I've tried talking to him but he is just an ***... I don't know how else to put it. Whenever I walk by him in the house he whispers things and tells me off. I try to be out of the house as much as possible but sometimes I have to be there and gah I can't stand him.

I don't mean to sound full of myself but I think he's a retarded little drug addict and he should be kicked out to experience the real world. I mean he won't even get a job... and the things he says to our mother, oh how I wish he was older. He would surely lose some teeth.

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  • dimanche

    Sounds exactly like my brother and I feel your pain

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  • Yeah he sounds like onee

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  • nothing2

    he probably is a little retarded drug addict. he might still be in 25 years. just walk away. some people you have to keep at a distance. its just headaches, bs, drama... wastes your time.

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  • thread

    Anytime your brothertriesto be an asshole to you. Just look at him with a big smile and I love you. He won't know how to respond. Just treathim with kindness.

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    • drugsrbadmkay

      ... and then rape him.

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  • Shiloh128964

    I have a brother that drives me crazy also. He's not a drug addict, but he does have ADHD and apparently knows every damn way to push my buttons.
    Your parents may treat your brother the same way as they do you, with 'tough love', but you may not see it all the time.

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  • CarolM

    I know he is ur brother but in the end u r the one who became a better person. He might get a chance somehow in his path n only thig u could to help him is giving him some advice and love-not hate, he might not even listen to you but that's your part. Don't let him destroy ur life tho, he might someday get out of the hell his created to himself. About ur parents well know from what u r saying they gave u better education and discipline and love when u needed to, shame they didn't do it to ur brother but that's not ur fault and it is not his fault either.

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    • Cobra

      Learn to spell properly, it's a fuck*n pain reading your comment...

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  • kricket

    Parents with more than one child have already succeded raising other older children who are intelligent and goal oriented and whom they can count on already such as yourself. Which is why your brother is allowed to be lazy. If not now, he will find out what the real world is like and soon. If not at 16 then maybe even 30 if need be.

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