I hate my best friend.

Omg, so normal! I have a friend exactly like that, the problem is that 98%% of the time hes an ass but 2%% of the time hes so nice you forget!

When you do tell them though, they get in a huff but the next day they act as though nothing happened and you still like them

i have the same problem. she's been my best friend since the 5th grade and sometimes i just want to punch her in the face and throw her off of a bridge. she is SUCH a bitch. i HATE her attitude problem and just recently i've started shooting back the attitude and bitchyness, but then she just gets pissed. it makes no sense! i've tried talking to her about it but she could care less. when my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me she took his side because she was "tired of me acting like a baby and bringing her down." everyone tells me to forget about her and find someone else, but then she turns around and acts like the same girl i knew and became best friends with in the 5th grade. it's rediculous. i'm tired of playing these i-wonder-if-she's-going-to-be-my-friend-today-or-not games. it's getting old. if you figure something out. please let me know. i'd appreciate it. thanks.

i have the same case my best friend is sooooo annoying she is not like my frend rather my enemy i think u should talk to her if she stays the same even then, then u should get over with her there and then face to face (don email her or anything tht makes it even worse trust me..)

i hate my best friend too, everytime she speaks im like dude thats total bullshit

Ugh yes one of my "best friends" is the exact same way. She's impossible to get rid of, too. Good luck honey, hope things work out for ya'.

Ok one of my closest friends is the exact same! But I have known her so long that it would be weird to cut our friendship. I understand where you are coming from.

With friends like that, who needs an enema?

So very normal!!!! Though I hope it's not too nosy to ask but I'm wondering how did it work out eventually? After 5 years or more now.. ?

yeah it is normal, my best friend since i was 13 now im 21 is just a very selfish girl, before i stared dating my boyfriend we used to always chill and she would have different boyfriends all the time and i always tagged along with her new boyfriends and their friends until i got a boyfriend and she never comes along anywhere with me as if shes jealous of my relationship cause my boyfriend is perfect and hers is so lousy. all she does is complain about how fat she is and her boyfriend doesn't buy her anything like mine does. she's always bragging about her education and everything else lol its so pathetic and even when she has chilled with my boyfriend she always made sure she started an argument between me and him like she got her evil ways and now pretty much she is up my ass about chilling and i am running out of excuses and i just feel so bad and harsh telling her the truth but i seriously hate this, i hate how over time you see through everyone eventually

I believe this is normal, because I'm going through the same thing.
From your description, she doesn't sound like a bestfriend, or a friend at all.
Maybe it's time to meet new people.
I wish you luck.
:)

She ain't your friend! Stop thinking she is... You can count your true friends on the fingers of one hand

omg!! i feel kinda the same way ive been best friends with this girl since 1st grade!! and now were in 7th!! ugh!! she just pisses me off!! idk why but its like she tries her entire best to make me feel like shes waay better then me. when i accidently left my pants at her house after a sleepover, i asked for it back and she said yeah and said that she tried it on.. and that i was fat. im not fat! and im older than her but im shorter than her and so i was like at least im not to skinny. but i didnt mean it in a mean way but then she answered "ehemm i think you should respect your tallers" wtf!?? who does she think she is telling me that?! she might be gifted and in the same class with my crush but that doesnt mean she can do that to me!? shes been really annoying to me ever since the start of 6th. idk what to do... i actually kinda think she feels the same way about me.. and ive talked to my other best friends about this and they feel exactly the same way but theyve only known her for one year. also she forgot my birthday last year(aug14) and she forgot it this year too!! or didnt answer the phone when i invited her to my party so didnt come!! it hurts.so she prolly forgot it this year too. :'(( please reply! i need advice!! please :)

and sorry for the long comment im really mad right now and theres so much more :/

You're just as big of an asscake as she is. You pretend to be her friend while you turn your hypocritical face to the crowd. Lovely!

She's having a period problem. Recomend tampons.

I don't understand why you call this person your best friend. End the friendship and everyone wins.

Friendship?? Done

Sometimes I get annoyed by my friends, but Jesus! If you hate this person so much why are you (best) friends with them? I am the most critical, hateful person I know and so I only have a few friends, why hang out with bad people? People like me a lot more than they really should so I could have a lot more friends than I do, I'm sure you can befriend nicer people than that.

well i dont hate my besy friend but she always makes me mad cuz shes the same as what u described and she flirts with my crushh

uggh my best friend is almost the same. she missuses words like spazz, she constantly makes a retarded pigeon noise which pisses everyone off. She constantly copies me too(ex. I'm obsessed with something and she copies me and says she's obsessed too when shes not) Im younger than her and 20x more mature than her, at one point I will take her facebook account ( she trusted with her password lol)

i would just gradually cut her off... get colder and colder and just ignore her.
she doesn't sound like the type who would change her attitude after a confrontation, so just drop her if it bothers you that much

You should just tell her anyway. Your not doing her any favors by not telling her anyway. She will just keep living this fantasy of hers and it could grow into a serious problem when she's older. Best to tell her.

seriously.. end the friendship with her.. because the only person its hurting is you. i had a friend like this, and for some reason i just wanted to be stay her friend so badly. i guess i just wanted a bestfriend and didn't consider anyone else to be my bestfriend. but im not friends with her anymore, and recently i hung out with her and she is still the same person she was back then. and i found that i really dislike the person she is.

Tell her that you know she is lying and her that she is annoying, bossy, rude, selfish, immature, and conceited. The important thing to to remember to tell her that you will be right here waiting for her, no matter how bad she really is.

sorry but nooooo thats just a bit off. im a chick tho so guys might think differently.. but nope eww that wud gross the absolute shit out of me