I hate/love my girlfriend iin??

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I have been with my girl friend for about 3 and a half years it seems everyday we fight mainly over dumb thing such as me not wanting to be around her everyday talking to another girl looking at her weird even or telling her I want to bring or be with my friends if I ignore her phone calls she just keeps calling and calling then she starts calling my house phone then just comes over and yells and screams and cries for hours and when told to leave just sits there so I have to fake make up with her just so she'll leave our sex life is dead not because she doesn't want to give it but because I don't take it and don't want to do it is that normal amd when she sits there and whines I just wanna hit here (which I never would) but is this a normal relationship or is it just screwed up and what do you think I should do or try

sorry about no punctuation and probably bad spelling but typing on my phone

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    It sounds that you don't love her but she loves you to an extreme level, which is fine too. The only real advice I can offer is to either leave her or stop being selfish and be with her.

    Just remember though that several people in society wish they had what you have and you are kind of pissing it away on your selfish behavior. For instance, my fiance is extremely clingy but I love that someone loves me so much. Either way though, you need to pick for a more serious relationship or end it.

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  • huSTLe
    14 years ago

    Sounds like my EX haha.
    All kidding aside, get rid of her dude! that relationship is going nowhere.

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  • Mason556
    11 years ago

    Dude she a like you relly get out of there you seem like a fucker

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  • soccergirl17
    13 years ago

    I think that she really loves you, but if you don't feel the same way, then maybe you guys shouldn't be bf and gf? I hope I helped :)

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  • sparrowfeed
    13 years ago

    that's ridiculous.

    as a girlfriend myself, this chick needs to BACK THE FUCK OFF. she sounds really, really needy. i don't know what to say..

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  • Gidget
    13 years ago

    Talk to her about it then give her a month and if u see improvements stick with it if not tell her to kick rocks

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  • beka1ici0us
    14 years ago

    maybe its because she is so used to getting her own way .. like when u fake make up with her she thinks she has won ... DONT give in to everything she wants and dont be a pushover and she will respect you more

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  • chaya
    14 years ago

    Find a diferrent girl friend.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    It doesn't seem like you two are a good match, emotionally.

    Maybe it's time to break it off, based on your description of how things usually go.

    She seems to have some serious abandonment issues and by soothing her when you are really feeling resentful, doesn't help her or you.
    She seems to want someone who lavishes her with daily attention and you are satisfied with a few times a week.

    Go find a girl that you are crazy about, otherwise you're only wasting your time.

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  • GrimElyse
    14 years ago

    Coming from a female's point of view it sounds to me like you've got a crazy chick on your hands. Is it normal? It's tough to say simply because most relationships I observe strive more off of conflict than affection.

    Normal for the most part, but definitely not healthy.

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  • tazy_IIN
    14 years ago

    Dude she sounds hella psyco. You guys need to communicate. Her whining and stuff sounds hella annoying. I would wanna hit her too. And imma girl. SO yea uh no offense but i dont think the relationships gopnna work till she grows up.

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  • LaWebley
    14 years ago

    Two lessons here:

    Full stop.

    Period.

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  • rockerfeller
    14 years ago

    gotta do it man , gotta keep doin it

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