I hate how i look is this normal

Ok I'm a female and I feel more like a man not that I want to because I want to be girly I want to wear girly clothes my only problem is I'm really hairy. I have a boyfriend that says he loves me and everything. I'm really self-conscious about this so I wear shirts that cover everything so having bigger boobs it's usually guy tshirts I hate this is it normal for a woman to have hair on her lower back like a guy or chin???? And how do I get rid of it

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Based on 45 votes (34 yes)
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  • CuriousMatt

    It's cliche perhaps, but everyone's different - that is the case for personalities, and it is certainly the case for our bodies.

    You may not believe it, and it probably doesn't help you even if I told you, but 99% of the people around you are self-conscious as hell about their bodies, and pretty much everybody have parts of their bodies which they dislike, parts, which they think are "not normal". It's not because there are anything wrong with them of course - it's usually because certain parts of their bodies do not conform to their own idealistic image of perfection.

    Remember that old saying "beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder"? Your boyfriend thinks you are beautiful and loves you for it. Bath yourself in that love and try and see yourself with his eyes.

    Now I'm not saying you shouldn't do anything about your hair, that you should grow a beard and start eating doggy treats for a shiny coat or anything like that. I am however saying you should try to worry less about your body. The worrying will never stop and it will get you nowhere. You could get laser or chemical treatments to stop the hairs from growing, but then what? You'll start comparing your skin to some girl in a magazine, or your butt to that dancer on TV. You'll start worrying about your boobs, thinking about breast reduction, or maybe then it'd be a tummy tuck, or maybe a touch up on your nose, or chins, or god knows what.

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  • glorbflip

    I've never seen you, but feeling self conscious about little things is definitely normal.

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  • have you heard of waxing? XD

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  • I think the lazer would be your best option, hair permanently gone. Hopefully you'll stop being self-conscious about it.

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  • I hate the way to posed your question. Its so incoherent and stupid. You said you're hairy or something right?

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