I hate everyone i sleep with

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I am 20 years old, I take good care of myself and enjoy having random sex. I know that is relatively normal and not what I am concerned about. The problem seems to be that when I pick someone up, fuck them, I always find myself either sneaking out 4am or insulting them outright in the morning. I can bang somebody all night long, think they are attractive, nice and good in bed. And the next morning when I see there face I am immediately disgusted by them, no matter how they are behaving. I refuse to give out my number even for a simple booty call, because after I have laid some one I never want to see there face again.

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  • Silverlenses4
    14 years ago

    Oh you're only 20 and you're having random sex? That's very unhealthy... oh sorry i'm not here to lecture you. I'm only 19, and I can't bare myself to do the same.

    I feel that you might be using one night stands as a tool to help you forget about certain problems in your life or feelings of negativity that is derived from a certain situation or a hidden problem that you don't even realize. Fo example, running away from the shadows of sexual abuse or child abuse. Of course there could be other possibilities.

    ONS is not the ideal way to solve your problem.

    If the reason you're indulging in random meaningless sex is for sexual expression, thirst and hunger, then I think you might have felt guilty the next day and therefore you'd hurl vulgarities at them or feel resentment towards them.

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  • Lockets
    14 years ago

    I agree with the above comment. Just stop having sex with so many random people and learn to get to know and like people for what they are, not as sex objects.

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  • LETMEKNOW
    14 years ago

    well i think its normal i got that problem with only this one dude ew...........i cant stand his life since we done it i hate it but yea its normal i would say learn to connect before having sex...

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