I hate being black

The problem is that you're mixing up race with culture and possibly socioeconomic status.

Skin color doesn't determine how you act or think... but how you are raised and what kind of culture you allow into your life WILL affect it.

You can find people with good manners, who are above racism and hate-based bias in every race.

it's not the race itself, it's the stereotype associated with it.
i'm a white man, and here in pennsylvania, much of the white people are a disgrace to the white race. so i've felt the same way before.
but you have to realize is that not everybody is the stereotype. and you are an individual person, not part of a chain, which makes you different from the many others. it's a good thing.

Have kids with a white woman, and then forbid your kids to date blacks. then make sure they repeat the process. Your grandchildren should be whiter than mitt romney after that.

Michael Jackson I thought you were dead!

Oh My Gosh, i sooo hate political correctness. Im a southern born and raised. The definition of racism has been redefined so poorly by the far left media long enough to create a generation of people who have no real clue what the word means. We are taught to ignore truth in favor of "tolerance". Give me a break. I will sum up with "racist" comments. The poster of this question realizes that the black man has bought in to the wrong advice. With MLK forgotten, leaders like Sharpton, "rev" Jesse Jackson and others are leading their once proud race into false assumptions about white people keeping them down. It is not racist for the poster to refer to low IQ, or me to notice that crime numbers reflect black men, or even that no black QB in the NFL has succeeded, or that Tiger Woods is typical of famous black atheletes. Slavery, racism, nor caucasians didnt cause the problems. The problem lies with black leadership seeking dominance, but calling it "equality". Move to Dixie, my friend. You will be shocked how little racism you will find. We love our black brothers, exist together well, marry interracially, (and with few exceptions), think as one people. YOU are the type leader that could lead your race to equality. Be proud of your IQ, and use it to help others. I will get slammed for some of what i wrote...which will only serve to make my opinions valid. There is one race. Its called HUMAN...peace out.

Ouch. Generalization much? Its's always disappointing to hear someone not liking who they are, especially something like what race they are. Hate to break it to you but you're stuck being black. If you haven't found anything to be proud of in your race by now, you're probably a lost cause at 37.

Touré's highly anticipated Who's Afraid of Post-Blackness? just hit the shelves (and the cover of the New York Times Book Review). He says...

First of all, being post-black is not being post-racial. Post-blackness is the concept that you can be black any way you want. That black identity is infinite—if there are 40 million black people, there are 40 million ways of being black. It's beyond the narrow idea that blackness is Jay-Z, Jim Brown, Jesse Jackson, Pam Grier. That the blackness is the totality of one's identity; it's all you think and care about. And if it isn't—you're out of the tent. You're Condoleezza Rice. You're Clarence Thomas. You're Colin Powell. You're Touré. You're out. Post-blackness says every definition of blackness is legitimate and acceptable, that you're rooted in but not restricted by blackness.

Wow the typical IQ is what... hate whitey!? ......wow... never seen anyone insult their own race and it not be a joke... but ok then i say.... dont move anywhere because where ever you go blacks will be there withere saggin pants their gangbanging, and their child support problems. Ok ok i im black but not pro black. However i do believe that every race should be proud of their culture and heritage. I mean it took everyone a while to get this far together. And as an idividual race i believe we went thru alot to have our own culture SERIOUSLY. im not judging im just saying that no where you go is safe from the "hip-hop" community....lol

I completely agree with Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress and won't rehash what she says, but to answer another point, I do wish I lived in Sweden, yes.

It's just a skin color, I don't understand why it's such a big deal to you.

emmm your kinda being racist to your own race...

I dont know why you care

I am 28 and I have just started to dislike being black too. My whole life I have been proud of who I was, I never felt inferior until I started to open my eyes to the behavior of my own people. I suffer around them for being different my whole life. I have been held back because I'm smarter, they rob me among other terrible things I have tried to block out of my mind. I alienate myself from my family and other people even though I'm from a black country and refuse to date another black man. I am having a dilemma also because I am starting to dislike whites who mate with blacks because I think it will result in the fall in numbers of white an that's my fear. I don't think blacks are like the rest of the world. They are the least evolved race and needs to be controlled but due to interracial dating and political correctness nothing can be done about it. Also the blacks like you and myself who are cursed to be different would not like to be treated like niggers because we don't feel that way, sweetheart I am fed up and I don't know what to do anymore. I know if I do have children I will do them a favor and jot make them full negro as I am already a light skinned woman, they might get lucky and act like me and the other half of what they will be, sorry for not properly punctuating my comment but I'm just so depressed and need to vent. I had to also cut my younger siblings out of my life, I tried to change them and make them act different and I failed. My only friend is a cat, the sight of black people cringe.

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Dude you can't be fucking serious.37 years old,and you're saying this shit? 37 years and you never met one intelligent black person? You're so biased you think a black person is stupid BECAUSE they're black!!! and yea oh effin kay to all that other verbal vomit .Sweden rocks I drive a Volvo.

I'm white and I had blacks too

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I am so sorry that you had to deal with a black. I, again am black but everyone I know who is black... And believe me, everyone I know, tragically, is black, is lacking in basic knowledge. I have grown up with blacks who were educated. They all lacked abstract thought. In 37 years I have searched and searched and I have not found one black person who was even reasonable intelligent.
For blacks, it's always more mor and more. More welfare, more government handouts. Blacks, yes again, I am black, only want quotas. Blacks can not compete without the quotas in big cities. Big city mayor know blacks can not compete in the real world, corporate world against whites and asians...
They know that.
So that is my frustration

I am a white guy and have a black step dad, i think he secretly hates it and is also a complete fuckhead to me(has lightened up over the years) i think it is because he hates white men and just has been with white women to get back at the whites for what our ancestors did to theirs......i know this dosent really help you much but i had to take the opportunity to voice why i think my stepdad is such a deuchbag

Your ratio of stupid people and color is out of balance.
Stupid people exist in all races maybe its the area you're living in move to afghanistan

There's a lot of cool wealthy black people who are republican and more than anything they're educated. If you're so smart be a sucessful black man.

I'm always called an oreo and I'm like okay I speak proper grammar and I don't have weave that sweeps the floor when I walk. That doesn't mean "I act white".

Your problem is you complain way to much, if you absolutely cannot stand how the typical black person acts then break he cycle.Maybe if you surround yourself by non ghetto black people you'll see that not all of us"Dont be talkin like dis."

Or you can take a bath in acid then you'll blend right in with the white man.

Guess what! You are black! And because if your ancestors you are able to take that IQ test. Because of your ancestors you are able to be where you are! If there is stupid people near you then that is because they either didn't have people to push them, they didn't see the need to succeed, or they didn't have a way. Either way you will find stupid people everywhere even in Sweden. No matter the race. You don't like your family because they are racist? Do better. Only want to date white women? Do it! But not because black women are stupid. I know of several that have jobs, go to school, and pay for themselves. If you keep finding "hoodrats" that is because you are a hoodrat! And btw.. White, Asian, etc can have 80-85 IQ

Racial differences extend beyond pigment, contrary to what some posters have stated. The races of man as they're currently defined exhibit mean differences in bone mass, muscle mass, height, melanocyte activity (and consequently pigmentation), facial structure, genital size, testosterone levels, brain volume, lactase expression, rates of slow acetylation versus fast acetylation, and, as the OP alluded to, IQ, among many other things.

It's firmly established in the psychological literature that African Americans score around 85 points on average on tests of intelligence (Caucasians: 100, East Asians: 105), and this undoubtedly affects their conduct (verify this for yourselves by performing a cursory review on Google Scholar). Naturally, there's a high degree of overlap between racial groups as we're dealing with average values. Lastly, it's not completely clear as to the extent to which genetic factors versus environmental factors account for this variation, although the former appears to be of high importance.

"the black norm of 80-85"

I think my brain just vomited.

im with you, 100%

chewy (61745)
I dont know why you care

I care because I care about humanity. I care about the future of the white race. Did you know, you non-racially aware white fool, at your race will make up only 0 percent of the population by the year 2100. Sound like a long time? No, that's your granddaughters generation.
Do you think blacks will be beneficent to your granddaughter?
Do any or you? Do you think here will be affirmative action for whites under black run America? What about section 8 housing or even so much as reservations? Did is what I despise about being black; this lack of abstract thought. I had to root for the black qb growing up, the black coach, etc,...
This has made me absolutely sick; so much so that I had to vent here, in format of complete strangers because I have no one else to vent to!!
Oh well, I am just frustrated. Any other people have any dealings with blacks that were negative. I would especially love to here from honest, and I emphasize the word honest, blacks, on this subject
I thank you.