dont like babies,never did&never will!
but the problem is that Im in serious relationship and every time I mention my opinion(that Im not melting myself when Im around babies and hate playing with them or simply dont picture myself having one..Im also disgusted of the act itself of giving birth!!)and he becomes angry of my "cranky and stupid behavior"
and says what the hell is he doing with me then?!..its like Im being forced to do something that its expected from me,just because Im a femmale..damn..Im not a reproducing animal:)))
Don't cave for him. Having a child for someone else when you clearly don't like or want them will not work. You will just end up resenting him for forcing you into a lifelong situation you didn't want. Living the life that will make you happy is not worth giving up so he can have a mini me. If he wants them that bad he can get a job working with kids or go find a woman who doesn't mind having babies for him.
Given his 'cranky and stupid' comment, I honestly don't think you'd be giving up much. That's pretty arrogant and insulting to say to someone you claim to care about, simply because they have a different opinion than yours. As for 'what the hell is he doing with you then', I would basically say because you love me and want to be with me, not because you want babies? If the only reason you see for being in a relationship with someone is to have kids, you need to re-evaluate why you bother being with someone at all. If being with JUST YOU is not enough for him, he doesn't deserve to be with you at all.
I hate babies.
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dont like babies,never did&never will!
but the problem is that Im in serious relationship and every time I mention my opinion(that Im not melting myself when Im around babies and hate playing with them or simply dont picture myself having one..Im also disgusted of the act itself of giving birth!!)and he becomes angry of my "cranky and stupid behavior"
and says what the hell is he doing with me then?!..its like Im being forced to do something that its expected from me,just because Im a femmale..damn..Im not a reproducing animal:)))
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Don't cave for him. Having a child for someone else when you clearly don't like or want them will not work. You will just end up resenting him for forcing you into a lifelong situation you didn't want. Living the life that will make you happy is not worth giving up so he can have a mini me. If he wants them that bad he can get a job working with kids or go find a woman who doesn't mind having babies for him.
Given his 'cranky and stupid' comment, I honestly don't think you'd be giving up much. That's pretty arrogant and insulting to say to someone you claim to care about, simply because they have a different opinion than yours. As for 'what the hell is he doing with you then', I would basically say because you love me and want to be with me, not because you want babies? If the only reason you see for being in a relationship with someone is to have kids, you need to re-evaluate why you bother being with someone at all. If being with JUST YOU is not enough for him, he doesn't deserve to be with you at all.