I hate anal sex. is that normal ?

I’ve always hated it ever since I first tried it. It was messy as hell shit got on his penis. I have been in a gang bang cause yes I'm a slut. But I hated the anal ... Same issue shit got on first guys cock. But he cleaned up. And they continued to use all my holes. I just don't find it pleasurable though. And it's like everyone else in the world seems to think it's pleasurable. Am I missing something here? I don't like it. Even if it isn't painful for me I find no pleasure from it.

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  • olderdude-xx

    I'd say its fairly rare among people who have not been exposed to it a lot via porn or other things.

    I have no interest in it.

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  • YE

    I wouldn't find it alluring if I even caught the smell shit on a woman.

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  • freakyman69

    I consider myself somewhat of a freak but anal is something even im not interested in. its just gross.

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  • Boojum

    It's only in PornWorld that everyone enjoys anal sex and there's never a spot of shit to be seen (unless it's a scat video, obviously, in which case there's little other than shit to be seen).

    Some women do genuinely enjoy anal and they have no problems with the potential dirtiness (or they take measures to prevent that, or they get off on that), and it's their right to do it if they want. If you can take it or leave it as far as how it feels but you find the ick factor too much to handle, then a respectful partner (or partners) should accept your choice and not go there.

    I grew up in a time when anal was considered something very taboo. Because the porn industry is constantly looking for something new and even more outrageous than everything that's come before, they started including anal scenes. So now it's the norm in porn. Because so many guys have been introduced to sex via porn, and because lots of people are too stupid to understand that the sex they see in porn has little relationship to real-world sex, way too many idiots believe that all women love anal and it's their right to get it if they want it.

    I'm a guy, and I've never been interested in anal. I suspect a lot of guys who are fixated on anal sex had mothers who were obsessed with hygiene and totally freaked out by shit, and so their interest in anal is _really_ about them rebelling against their Mommy.

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    • SkullsNRoses

      I like your Freudian theory about guys who are obsessed with anal, you’re probably onto something there.

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      • Boojum

        To be honest, I was being a bit trollish, but I have wondered...

        I've also wondered if the reason I've never been obsessed with tits is because my mother breastfed me until I was a year old or something like that, and then I watched her breastfeed my younger siblings who were born at two year intervals after that. I mean, I admire a shapely pair of breasts and I'm very happy to play around with them if a woman enjoys that, but somehow I've always seen them as more practical things rather than mysteriously alluring forbidden fruit.

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  • RoseIsabella

    Anal sex isn't normal for anyone except gay men. You shouldn't ever consent to doing anything sexual that you dislike, or don't enjoy. Also you shouldn't participate in gang bangs, because it's bad for your self-esteem, and makes you look like you have no self-respect. Life will be more enjoyable if you aren't being used, and objectified.

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  • junies

    Basic anatomy. The anus and the digestive system are designed to expel waste from the body. It is an exit, not an entrance. Medical procedures and medication are instances when it could be used as an entrance. The digestive system, anus gets enough use on a daily basis doing the basic functions of the body and as people age problems start to occur.
    When I see videos showing people shoving everything but the kitchen sink up there I wonder what kind of problems they will have later in life and come to regret it.
    To answer your question, yes it is normal to hate anal sex.

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  • Inkmaster

    Try an enema beforehand.

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  • LloydAsher

    It's not for everyone. Simple as that.

    It's just that when humanity realized you couldn't get pregnant from anal that idea caught on like wildfire.

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  • Tommythecaty

    I don’t recall any actual shit getting on my dick anytime when doing it with chicks. Just wet slimynesssss

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    • LloydAsher

      They either knew it was going to happen or had a convenient dump beforehand. Anal has a way of loosing the bowels.

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      • Tommythecaty

        It doesn’t really happen like that. The op is a person who hasn’t done it and thinks that’s what happens, so they wrote an inaccurate story.

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  • FromTheSouthWeirdMan

    It can get messy if ur not careful but there's ways to prevent that from happening. Or atleast make it less than a 1% chance of happening. You have to prepare for it. Its not a spontaneous thing unless you are really experienced and know when is ok and can loosen it up without taking forever.

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