I had experienced sex with about 6 - 7 boys before i marry

I say that the only way your marriage will work is if you're honest. Why start a marriage off with lies?? That's all it'll be...

A "blunder"? Like, were you walking through the park and you tripped and fell on this guy's cock?

Either way, you have to remain faithful, regardless of your feelings throughout the relationship. Be honest with your husband, obviously you're not a virgin. I had sex with 10 guys before I was married. But now I am married and unless he dies or we divorce, he will be the last I have sex with and that is good enough for him and most men that I know.

I screwed almost that many in a week when I was 20.

Take it to the grave with you.

Better to hear from you than one of the guys you had sex with.

The number should not bother him. Many guys and gals rack up large numbers. But to 'blunder' and have sex after you were engaged was pretty dumb. It sounds like you would rather stay with your boy toys rather than get hitched.

You should be able to get clues from your husband's conversation and background how forgiving he's likely to be, and judge your response accordingly.

don't tell him

wait... after you got engaged? so you cheated on him. at least once. How many other times? if the other 6 were just past boyfriends then it's no big deal but if you have cheated on him with SEVEN guys... well... he deserves to know that...

Let him know. It might lead to a better sex life, and if you're lucky enough, to include other people.

I'm a wife who did tell her husband most everything. Now all he does it use it against me. He jokes about it most of the time, though. If I had it to do all over again, I would have kept my mouth shut. My advice, the less he knows before a marriage the better.

Only 6 - 7? You're just a beginner. Fix him his favorite meal, put on your sexiest outfit, and do your hair up nice and pretty. Then, seduce him after dinner and tell him what a long schlong he has. You know how to do it. All women do.

Then when he's basking in the afterglow of all that adulation and admiration tell him you want to be honest so you are asking him to tell you how many lovers he has had and that, in return you will tell him how many you had.

He'll be so worried about his own sexual history that you'll be able to recite "Mary Had A Little Lamb" and he won't even notice.

I'm not sure I understand how the men you slept with before getting into a relationship with your husband are relevant. Obviously, he'd probably be upset about you cheating on him, but who you slept with before you were together shouldn't matter. If it would matter to him, that sends up red flags.

Slut.

In a row? At least it's not 36 blow jobs....

but seriously... is your husband-to-be mature enough to accept that you had a past before him? You should know him well enough to know if he'll accept it or if he'll freak out and get mad.

I guess he must be knowing that your are not a virgin. If he knows that then the number of times doesn't make a difference.

have you married now? did you tell everyone you had sex to your husband

Of course you can tell him. What kind of husband would dump his wife for something like that? It's not like you did anything wrong.

Troll.

Quit being a slut, oh wait you can't. You're already one.

That's a lot your husband probably won't look at you the same way, a lot of Dick (no pun intended) & Harrys have been there. Just come clean honesty is great you'll feel a whole a lot better after, he now the other hand might feel sick.. 7 wow! you've been around, truth be told.

Mmmm you should not tell him. That will ruin everything. Just try to be a good wife now.