I had a girl whom i started dating

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i had a girl who i loved and we started dating...and i loved her too much and we were serious in the beginning and then she started getting irritated as i always try to help her and i always try to compliment her cuz i seriously loved her...she said that we should break up cuz she is irritated that i am like this....is it normal that now i just hate that person bcuz that person abandoned me in my need and she was the only one who could have made me happy....plz suggest me what to do

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  • Boojum
    6 years ago

    News flash just in:

    Scientists have discovered that it is not the case that there is only one person in the world we can each be happy with.

    From what you say, I have no idea why she broke up with you. Maybe she hates being complimented because she has low self-esteem and what you said challenged her self-hate. Maybe she thought you weren't genuine. Maybe she thought you were too clingy and needy. Maybe she believes she needs to play the field a lot before finding Mr Perfect. Maybe you were just into her a lot more than she was into you.

    All these things happen.

    Your feelings are hurt because she rejected you. That's understandable, but virtually everyone is rejected by someone they care about at some point in their life. That's just the way the world works.

    All you can do is give yourself some time to get over this, then try to stand back, look at how you behaved, think about why she might have responded as she did, and try not to make the same mistakes the next time.

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    • Katerina
      6 years ago

      This.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    In what way or ways did you try to help her?

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    • senear
      6 years ago

      like when her mom was sick i went to help her with her family problem and when i supported her in her harsh time and all....

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