I guess there is not someone

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Its been said there is someone for everyone. I just wonder about that. I am a crossdressing male, in my mid 50's, and do so many women really feel so repulsed by guys that crossdress that they even choose to not discuss, or even try and find out the real story regarding someone you know, or just met etc.? I'm not trying to have my own little pity party, I'm just curious about why so many won't even consider getting to know other members of society. Approx 98% of male CDs ARE NOT gay. Most society seems to think different. I have been single for about 20 years now. To be honest it scares the crap outta me to think I will be single till I die. That will be long lonely days. I wish I knew how to get women to at least consider us as people that need loving too.

Female- Its fine with me.	7
Female- Could be interesting.	5
Female- no way in hell.	3
Female- I dated a crossdresser before, we shared clothes.	2

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fakeaccount2

6 years ago

I'm fine with cross dressing the problem is with desperate weirdos just trying to get laid while pushing their own lame fetishes. Go to gay bars and shit like that or wherever phag-hag liberals hang out at, if being able to constantly wear women's clothes to get a boner is that important in your relationship. And btw my bf is hott af in women's clothes and makeup, because he has an actual personality outside of that,, it's just a bonus. Most who call them self cross dressers only care about cross dressing and expect to find a women like that too ? How ? It gets boring when that's all there is to your personality is "look at me I'm pretending to be a woman and/or I get hard from wearing certain clothes".

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- Lana_Drah
  
  6 years ago
  
  amen to that
  
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Gitmeoffbitch

6 years ago

Have you ever considered that you would be a tremendous embarrassment to her friends and family? In your age group she's bound to have adult children. Look, you're a freak. How can you expect normal people accepting you as normal?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  You say "Look, you're a freak". Is that what YOU TRULY believe? Your opinion as you got older, made your own decisions, or maybe mommy and daddy also told you that masturbation is wrong, immoral, and don't do it because we said so.? But at some point you want to know about masturbation. You decide all on your own that you enjoy it. Before that you didn't understand it, because you didn't want to discuss it and find out more. Same here, people usually dislike or disagree with things they do not understand. So how do you feel about a male who identifies as female and lives life as a female. In your opinion, is that person a freak also? In your opinion, what is it that makes them a ""Freak? I would really like to know.
  
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  - Lana_Drah
    
    6 years ago
    
    Just don't go around questioning why women don't want to date you. If they don't like dating you because of that one thing, then just change it or accept that it is a really big turn off to them. You can't convince every single women that you're normal, so if you want a date, really attract them with something they're looking for in a man.
    
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Nickvey

6 years ago

my college suite mate was a cross dresser that claimed to be straight but he got so pissed he could not dress for me and spend the night with me he screamed i was going to let you lube up my backside and bareback me. So, he was either gay or bisexual. so why are so many cross dressers lying to their wives and or other men? seems to me its they who are not comfortable with truth. BTW six months latter i saw hem leaving his room dressed as a women . the mother fucker was hot. i almost sprang a hard on.

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noid

6 years ago

There's not someone for everyone. It's just someone's nice idea that caught on.

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BeautifulDreamer612

6 years ago

I can not see a reason why someone would be against dating a cross dresser.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  And this right here is why it would be so easy for a guy like me to enjoy being around more females like Beautiful Dreamer here. I really wish there were a lot more women who feel like you do.
  
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  - BeautifulDreamer612
    
    6 years ago
    
    people are so close minded😞
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      6 years ago
      
      The sad part of that, if the closed minded people could relax, open their mind, learn that being so stuck in a rut as far as life, love, thoughts, etc. then the entire moods or atmosphere in their life might get a lot better by not being so against acceptance. (JMHO).
      
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      - BeautifulDreamer612
        
        6 years ago
        
        Yeah 🙁
        
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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  So I don't spose any way you can take me home tonight? Lol
  
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  - BeautifulDreamer612
    
    6 years ago
    
    Lol 😂 Buy me a ring first and then we'll talk
    
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    - CDmale4fem
      
      6 years ago
      
      Don't tease me if your not gonna please me. Lol.
      
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      - BeautifulDreamer612
        
        6 years ago
        
        Haha 😂 Who says I won't please you
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        6 years ago
        
        We really should talk. Lol.
        
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Anonymous Post Author

6 years ago

I will say I was really surprised to see more positive comments here instead of the negative bs that seems to somehow find its way. Those who spoke in such positive comments, I wish I could shake your hand and tell you thank you from someone who has learned to find what's really important in life and value that. When you do have a special someone in your life its so very easy to get comfy and start taking things for granted. I know here in the States we take SO MUCH for granted every day.

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McBean

6 years ago

I am not a cross-dresser and there is nobody for me. People that say there is somebody for everyone are full of shit.

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Anonymous Post Author

6 years ago

I would like to say that and nbb responses were civil,food for thought, and some real good lessons learned thru some past events, good or bad.

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Friedchiken

6 years ago

I'm an 18 year old girl and honestly it's not the cross dressing that sets me off it's the age. There's nothing wrong with being 50 and I know you're not specifically looking for an 18 year old. But consider that for most women that are younger it would be hard to hold a relationship with a person of your age. It's not the cross dressing, to me. If I were you I'd just look for people around your age and join some dating sites. It's not that nobody's attracted to you, I can promise you that. It sounds cliche but you just haven't found the right person yet. You're not a freak, you're just different than other people. So it's going to be harder for you, but that doesn't make it impossible.

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CreamPuffs

6 years ago

I could date a crossdresser if he was a good person, reasonably attractive, and smart enough to converse with.

Crossdressers are logically less likely to be trump supporters, which is a huge plus. Although there are some older ones who are.

If I did have a serious relationship with one, I don't think we'd share clothes too often. I wear normal shirts and pants and shorts. (shorts especially) and I don't wear long dresses very much. I have a couple of cute skirts, but that's it in terms of clothes feminine enough for a crossdresser to want to wear. I never wear high heels because they're bad for the feet, and I'd like it if he didn't wear them either. Still, he might want to wear some of my other shoes and I wouldn't mind. Shoes DO tend to require more specific sizes though, so we'd need very similar feet for that to happen.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  I can honestly say I really don't think I could EVER find a woman that would be able to let me try her shoes. I wear a men's 13 men's. As for other kinds of clothing, it doesn't bother me to go to thrift stores for things if I need to. I actually have way more mend and women's clothes than I could ever need, since I have only went out in public dressed once about 20 years ago. It was Halloween, a female friend at the time convinced me to come to where she was. I admit that while I walked down sidewalk in black pantyhose, black dress (mid thigh length) I also had bra with a pair of breast forms I had just got. It felt oddly awesome. Someday I will get to do that again. Thank you for your positive outlook. I can honestly say that I feel I am a good person. I don't like to lie to people, I treat others as they treat me. I go out of my way to help others. I don't go dress up and run around telling anyone to "look at me" or "does this make my ass look fat"? I would love to have conversations with interesting females. I don't and won't go thru a females stuff for my own gain. Her stuff is not mine to go thru. I recently diagnosed with Autoimmune Retinopathy, basically I'm losing my vision. I can't find a job where someone will hire someone who is legally blind. So I spend alot of time at home. So I get bored and after awhile I find ways to entertain myself. So all those who want to talk down to someone who does not fit the social norm, I may seem weird or a freak to many. But you know what - IDGAFF.
  
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- Friedchiken
  
  6 years ago
  
  "Crossdressers are logically less likely to be trump supporters, which is a huge plus. Although there are some older ones who are". Cringeee
  
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  - CreamPuffs
    
    6 years ago
    
    Yes I know, it is very cringey that anyone who could relate to the LGBT would support Donald Dump. I feel you.
    
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jethro

6 years ago

Bruce Jenner, is this you again?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  Bruce who?
  
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  - jethro
    
    6 years ago
    
    You surely can't be that clueless. However, if all else fails, try Google.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      6 years ago
      
      Wow, some people don't have a sense of humor.
      
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      - jethro
        
        6 years ago
        
        What... You think you said something humourous? Try again.
        
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FilthyLoca

6 years ago

Maybe you should consider a dominatrix type girlfriend who can indulge you, try digging around the goth scene.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  6 years ago
  
  And I don't get the suggestion of the goth scene. I am a crossdresser, I'm not out looking to drink blood, or find my limits sexually in the back of an Adult Book Store. So I enjoy wearing female attire, and that has what to do with the Goth scene, a Dominatrix, or finding out that IF I had a wife and we get divorced then we IN FACT would still be brother and sister. I'm not that twisted, warped, or depraved. In your text there in lies part of my problem. I don't go running down streets in a nightgown or trying to force myself upon others. Due to the various amounts of negative "crap" for lack of better word, I find it so hard just approach females even just for conversation. But that's ok, I got it figured out.
  
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rayb12

6 years ago

Hate to redpill u but this really has nothing to do with CD. You ought to know as well as I do there are many happily married CD men in hetero relationships. If not just check fetlife, or read the thousands of blogs and forums.

You can no longer blame CD for why you've been single.

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