I gravitate toward male friends with hairy chests
I appreciate unique and unshallow people. The whole manscaping craze I just find really vain and superficial. I'm constantly hearing about men who want both, unrealistically, to appear masculine but also wish they'd turned out hairless as a seal and looked like giant new-borns when they're naked! So I feel a lot more comfortable around men who own their natural body hair, especially those who don't try to hide it. I just respect what I assume is their down-to-earth, non-sheeplike nature. I even respect women who respect men with body hair more!
This is just one example of people who aren't obsessed with grooming and appearances who I respect more because of it. I don't have ANYTHING against naturally hairless people, but the guys who shave and wax everything off, it puts ME right off. I'm not a macho guy in the least, and maybe having the body hair I do have is an odd contrast with my youthful face, but I don't care. I'd rather just be me the way I was meant to look than try to become closer to what I think society wants me to be.
So, you men who work out shirtless with a hairy chest, or don't care if the top button comes undone and someone notices you haven't manscaped, know that at least one person respects the hell out of you. You look like real, classy, Connery-esque men.