I got rid of my abuser

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I was married to a man for a decade that did nothing but demean and abuse me. After several years of separation I decided to be a friend to him.
Things began to get toxic as he attempted to gain control over me again, today I told him to get lost. I want to love his man, but I think he doesn't love me. He has done some really bad things to me in the past, and I started to see those behaviours again.
I'm reclusive and I will be VERY lonely
After a lifetime of abuse and isolation, will I ever find love? AM I NORMAL?

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Based on 28 votes (24 yes)
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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago

    Of course its normal to get rid of him. He obviously doesnt love you, he just wants to use you. Nobody hurts those they love.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    You sound normal for some who's had to live through, deal with and leave an abusive relationship on your own. My heart goes out to you. Keep moving forward and don't look back.

    Here's a link for you to checkout:

    http://www.coda.org/

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  • la_uva_mojada
    9 years ago

    A leopard doesnt change his spots. He's a loser, stop contact for good!

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  • green_boogers
    9 years ago

    Enjoy your solitude. It can have a healing effect. You won't be ready for relationships for a long time.

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  • mlbryan44
    9 years ago

    I don't have any morals at all so it is simple for me but I like blowjobs.

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  • mlbryan44
    9 years ago

    Are you a good cocksucker? Very important if you want to find true love, male or female.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      9 years ago

      What an asshole.

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