I get upset when i see other people are happy?

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I'm 18, never had a girlfriend, but sometimes when I see people enjoying themselves and I'm just sitting there I end up sad and can only cheer up.if I think of them getting mutilated or being unhappy like me.. Is thIs normal behaviour.

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Based on 119 votes (67 yes)
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  • theceilingfan
    13 years ago

    It's normal to be envious. You should try not to let yourself feel that way as much as you do, it will turn you into a very bitter person.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    You are sad with a capital Q

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  • courixoxo
    13 years ago

    Normal, but the mutilation thing is a bit creepy..

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    For once, I agree with every poster. In their own way, everyone who has responded has said something true.

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  • duziee
    13 years ago

    It's normal to be jealous. It's happened to me all too often, and being socially anxious didn't help. But getting mad at happy people will only make YOU more sad, so try to cheer up by finding some happiness of your own.

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  • timebobbu
    13 years ago

    jEalous with a capital E

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  • allik_21
    13 years ago

    Normal I just dont picture them at all

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  • Etheredge92
    13 years ago

    you're just unhappy with your life. normal

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  • ladyluck31
    13 years ago

    Go find you a girlfriend... because if you keep on being jealous of other peoples relationship, you going to really be alone. You can't get anywhere by dwelling on others.

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  • Complex4
    13 years ago

    ya i guess its normal

    ...I dont like it when people are crazy laughing and all when i m down..

    Its insecurity, Its probably because you arent happy and that makes you sad to see others happy...Its like they are rubbing their happiness on your face...

    BUT, would you like it, If people are unhappy seeing you happy (my enemies..YES! lol joking)...

    Just dont care..or atleast try not to..Its got nothing to do with you..their life is different, different joys, different sorrows..

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  • askmesomething
    13 years ago

    Well I'd agree with the others that you are feeling envy. I get mad and hate Disney movies because it is so idealistic to me, because I had a horrible childhood. And super happy people sometimes irritate me. So unless you want to punch people for just being happy, then I'd say it's normal. But I like being around happy people, it makes me feel happy.

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  • Lolly_pop
    13 years ago

    That's pretty pathetic.

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