I get really depressed around this girl

It's not about the girl, mate, it's about the feeling you get when you embrace life and death in the image of one girl, when one girl makes you feel so alive that you almost want to be dead. Its a paradox. but its the magic of passion. Dont ever lose it because if you do you lose yourself. and then life is not worth living.

whew, can't believe i wrote all that piss but there you have it. Today's wisdom from King Spammy.

C'mon - this overblown fantasy and drama is something YOU have created around this girl. No wonder she said "no" to you - she has (and wants) nothing to do with it (or you). Go to your doctor right away & get help with your depression.

It's VERY normal. And I know this is difficult because you firmly believe this girl is THE ONE. Let me guess, you don't even think about other girls do you?

Growing up, I felt this way a few times about a certain girl and as much as you don't believe it and as cheesy as it sounds the fact remains there WILL be more girls!

But I also know that knowing this won't help because you have your heart set on this girl. Maybe, MAYBE you still have a chance with her, so I'm not saying you should give up on her, just don't ignore all the other girls out there!

Concentrate on doing something that you like and keeps your mind busy and believe me it WILL get better with time.

sounds like a wierd addiction. think ur more additced to the routines of planning ur suicide ect. than being in love with the girl. try drugs, alcohol or exercising.

I must admit, this is one of the strangest posts I have come across, you sounded preety normal until I read the latter part about you enjoying the feeling and how it gave you a euphoric high which is definitely NOT normal. However, the former part is normal...I once had a close friend and I loved being around her and all, though a lot of the times I felt sad/depressed for her and got the feeling of low self esteem. Quite honestly I think you are picking up on her energy and how she is feeling/thinking, if I were you next time u see her ask her how she really feels on a daily basis. You may be surprised...

You sound a little manic and extreme but it sounds like a bittersweet kind of friend crush. You want to know her and be close to her and have her close to you so badly that you feel depressed in a sort of happy way. I have felt this before too, just try your best and become Good friends with her

i dont know if its normal but i like a girl and whenever im around her i think of suicide

I understand that u liek the girl very much, ive liked girls a lot too, but not that bad, u should just try to get over it and find something else to be obsessed over

send me a picture i wanna c how i feel

Hey everyone. I have the exact same problem. There's this girl. Cute, sweet, and funny beyond belief. I love her so much but she won't let me ask her the question. I don't know if she'll say yes. I don't know if she likes me that way either. I just keep hoping that it might be true. This just leaves me confused and depressed. I seriously considered committing suicide. I just. NEED her. Every time she's in my class I just love being around her. She makes me feel alive. She refines my world into such a point where it only revolves around her. And then. The class ends and we all head home. And here I am on a two week break. We've been keeping up by e-mailing for a bit but. I just don't know. I need help. And I found this.

don't kill yourself, it's stupid. especially over a girl. I'f you're young, still in school, especially don't man. You only get one chance in life. Don't give up on yourself, just wait until life gets better. you'll regret ever thinking about it. by the way you're getting this from a cold hearted bastard. so if you're depressed, like i said, just cry and get over it. I'f you're emo, go ahead and kill yourself.

Good for you.

ok i know what its like to be totally depressed over someone...a crush even. but you need to get some help you sound really depressed! I've also been there, trust me you want it to go away. Please get some counseling or something baby!

the girl might not have anything to do with this. you might be projecting feelings on her as some kind of savior. you might need some meds bro.

No one likes a clinger

Same principle can be applied to poop

I don't think you can afford these feelings, especially when your work is involved. I went through the same thing and she took two years from me. If you insist on going through with this though, get an escape plan ready so you can get back on your feet.

just a suggestion, FUCK THAT CHICK, not literally, dont let her bother you, shes obviously a whore, just because i could kinda tell. dont let her bother you, and yeh, dont plan ur suicide

You, my friend, are in love.. :)

dude. I know how you feel.
Going through the same thing right now.
It's really normal, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Mines never gotten to the point where i've wanted to kill myself, but I have drank alchohol because of how bad the feelings were. It'll go away, just tell yourself she's ugly and a b*tch and you'll find someone better. and hopefully it will happen

i hope you dont kill your self. just because this girl didnt say yes doesnt mean you have to completly hide from it all, you can still be her friend. the whol suicide thing thats not good :(

You're fixating on this one girl. It's not the end of the world if she doesn't like you like that. If you've been around each other for a while and she still isn't into you it probably means you wouldn't work well together anyway. All you say about her is that she's cute, this leads me to believe that you're objectifying her, turning her into a thing that you feel you MUST have. This is not healthy, you don't NEED things! And she's not a thing anyway! See her as a person, and then ask yourself if you have anything in common with this person, and if you want to be around this person. I'm willing to bet that you'll realise that you actually don't have much in common with her, which is why she isn't interested in you. Then go find a girl that you do have something in common with and doesn't make you feel shit.

I think I get what you mean...
I like this one girl too she is my friend I haven't asked her out before but...sometimes when I leave from her house I hope to get hit or hurt in some way that will make her notice me more something to get us closer...you know to make her care about me...yeah I still think that is normal JUST DONT KILL YOURSELF man, killing yourself is going...way to far

your in love with her dumbass.

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Being in love fucks with your brain and makes you feel as if you were on drugs, so yes, that's normal. Being that depressed, not so much. EVERYONE falls in love and loses a love and thinks it's the end of the world. However, if you are a teen ... teens' brains are dealing with so many hormones that if every teen was analyzed by a psychiatrist, by adult standards 99%% of them would be diagnosed with a mental illness. Go see a therapist and it will help. Lots of people have depression and it isn't too hard to deal with.

wowza u must like this girl!

Girls have a way of complicating everyone's life so yea it's normal u whana kill your self when u meet a girl that's what they do

a have a good idea for u, next time your around her, get a knife and cut your self and she will feel sorry for u and get close to u, worked for me, (for an hour)

i have been feeling the same about this bloke that i was seein but he had a gf that was preg we aint seein each other anymore even tho we did slept together while he was with her which made my feelings stronger. every time i see him i just walk off and hind but then after i wish i had talked 2 him and then i go home and i think about the what ifs and just cry sometimes i wish id just walk outside and get hit by a bus or something but the thing that keeps me going is my son he doesnt have his dad he only has me and if it werent for him i dont know where id be

I think youre very depressed, that is definitely not a healthy way to feel about someone....

i'm gonna go kill myself over this girl she's worth it

ftw!!!!

If you get depressed around her she probably thinks your some kind of depressed loser. If you like her so much you should be happy around her. Try and show her your happy outgoing side she will like this better

try extreme bungee jumping its how i spice my life