I get bored of people and abandon them

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I like having friends but I really hate talking to them on a daily basis and when they open up to me. I had this best friend who I just completely ignore now because it annoys the shit out me when he talks to me about his failed relationship and he sent me messages on Facebook when I didn't reply on WhatsApp so I just stopped talking to people now and avoid opening social websites, there's even this girl who I like and likes me back but I don't talk to her anymore because she would reply every day and it annoyed me.

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  • Lies
    7 years ago

    lmao i love this

    I feel like you're too cool for people anyways

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  • sandnigga
    7 years ago

    Anti-social much? lol

    The question is figuring out why you dont like socializing.

    Alone time can be a good thing, but why no social time?

    It's your choice, everyone is different, but im just curious

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    You sound emotionally unavailable to those around you and unable to handle basic things that happen in friendships/relationships.

    Not sure if it's an attachment disorder or something else. If it really bothers you, go see a therapist for real answers.

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  • Rihyae
    7 years ago

    Same, I've dropped a lot of people but some I still like as long as I recharge first o:.

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  • boombambop
    7 years ago

    You're either a psychopath or a douchebag

    I think it's the latter

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  • Ghostspeaker
    7 years ago

    I've was in therapy and on meds a few years ago until I stopped too. So I guess I'm rebounding.
    Staying in a job for a long time is hard as well, my last job lasted for a month before I quit.
    I've talked to people in pubs before but I wouldn't enter the same pub twice if I had a conversation with someone.
    I haven't voted if its normal or not because it obviously isn't but that doesn't mean its uncommon.
    I would suggest going back and getting therapy if nothing else its an excuse to be antisocial. :P

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  • Ghostspeaker
    7 years ago

    I'm the same I really only just made a profile on here to ask the exact same question. I distance myself from people and I hate talking to anyone for an extended period of time. I'm not even on facebook or any social media for that matter. I don't let people get close to me because I don't want them to own my mistakes.

    I have social anxiety disorder and I guess attachment issues too, I'm seeking therapy and I'm on loads of medication. Its awful not being able to speak to anyone and not wanting to be lonely at the same time.

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    • bucketfullofbuttholes
      7 years ago

      OP here, stopped therapy about two years ago because I thought it was a load of crap and stopped medicating myself too, I feel exactly the same. At first I actually desire talking a lot with someone I like but after two days or so I get really irritated and want to be left alone, this happens a lot with girls I like, at first I talk to them for hours and after a few days I won't even respond or log into anything. I understand the frustration of not wanting to be alone but hate being too talkative with people, it's like a downward spiral.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago

    Steal their knickers poop in them they send em back via snail mail.

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