I get anxious and can't sleep at night because my mother's drinking.

Agreed...good luck

if you're underage call CPS

If you're over 18 consider moving out so you can be free from that.

also consider talking to a doctor about alcoholism. if your mother and grandfather were both heavy drinkers and alcoholics, it's possible you were born with a genetic trait that makes you more susceptible to alcoholism.

You might also want to contact Alcoholics Anonymous. They may be able to help you with surviving living with an alcoholic.

Guys, I know it's hard, but if you're old enough, move out. You've got to love yourself enough to get away. And don't be embarrassed. Your loved one needs help you can't give them. Seek professional help. If you're not old enough, tell your teacher, or counselor, I know this is hard, and might seem like you're selling them out, but they need serious help. At first it'll be bad, I know. You'll feel unimaginable pain. And they'll say very hurtful things. But you've got to look beyond that. This is an extremely difficult situation more serious than you know. Eventually, they'll ether receive the help they need, or they'll refuse it. Either way, you need to get out. At least tell a family member. They might have a solution. You may feel like you're selling them out. They may tell you the same. It WILL HURT. & if may take a couple of YEARS before you realize you did the right thing. Doing what is best, or the right thing is never easy. That's why 'taking the easy way out' is an insult. It shows weakness. Be strong. Seek help where ever you can get it. Don't be private about it. That's what makes things worse. I'm sorry I can't be there for you. This is the path that has been chosen for you. What you do with it is up to you. You choose the steps you take. I recommend a chaplain of some kind. They are very helpful guides on the the path of life. Don't worry about sin, fire, heaven, or hell. You have more pressing issues. Any chaplain worth his salt won't preach those things to you. They'll help you w/the task at hand. God will help you, but you must ask for it. No special rules or ceremony, just ask. the answer will always be in your heart, but it's controlled by the brain, so remember to think before you act. God will help you, IF you let him. He cannot affect free will. I wish you the best of luck on your troubled journey. Godspeed, my friend.

I had to lock my door last night for the same reason, first time I've ever freaked out about her drinking. That's the only thing I can suggest, lock the door. And if u havnt got a lock, get one .

It is perfectly normal that you are insecure about it, you just dont want to become like your mother. Just tell yourself everyday "I'm not going to end up like her." Make good choices with your life, stay in school, and just be the best you cab be. About the sleeping part of all of this, what I would do if my mother was making this choice I would stay up until she goes to bed because you honestly dont know what she is going to do next because she doesnt know what she is doing 3/4 if the time :(

Thanks everyone.

Your just afraid that if you fall asleep while she is doing those things that something bad will happen to her. Soo normal hunni. Im the same way with my mom, but her problem is worse shes on pain meds.

I know how you must feel. How is your mother acting when she drinks, versus when she's sober? I've lived with alcoholics and was even married to one, so any questions you might have; I will do my best to give you any advice and insight I can. :o)

its perfectly normal to feel insecure and worried about this type of thing. its possible a loved one is drinking their life away - who wouldnt feel bad about that? as for how to deal with it, i dont know... but i think your feelings are normal

How old are you? Are you old enough to move out? How does she change? Is she threatening to you in any way? Verbally or physically? Or do you just not like it and who she becomes? Could you talk to a trusted family member or friend for support? If she is threatening to you in some way I would talk to someone you trust to help you. I know it's hard to watch someone you love drink inappropriately. Good luck.