I fucking hate desperate guys

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No, I'm not a girl. I'm a guy and I hate them because they're the reason why every girl who looks halfway decent thinks she's a Hollywood celebrity who deserves the moon.

Before you say it, I'm not mad or anything and I haven't been rejected by anyone, it's just something that I've always thought and wanted to share.

I mean, the average looking guys have to do all the hard work, if a girl is slightly pretty, she will have guys drooling all over her and asking her out because they want to fuck and anyone will do, this will make her think she's all that when she's just another ordinary girl.

I've always treated them like normal people, not something to worship, but I've also treated hot girls like absolute crap if I didn't like them as a person just like I would act towards a guy I don't like.

If every guy was like me, them girls would have self-esteem issues.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Wow, you’re worse than all the desperate guys. Girls aren’t being bitchy because they think they “deserve the moon” they’re just tired of dealing with unloyal fuckers like them and assholes like you. If you’re single, I’m really not surprised.

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    • Alichael
      5 years ago

      This is how I see this topic: Women do get turned off by desperate guys, but only if the desperate guy is someone they don't find attractive. If the woman finds the guy hot, he can act as desperate as he wants because she's gonna be just as desperate for him.

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      • vetk
        5 years ago

        True, but any man who acts desperate for a woman does not deserve to be called a man, attractive or not.

        If I were ugly I'd rather die a virgin than act desperate.

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        • Alichael
          5 years ago

          You a man or woman? I've noticed how at least some women don't seem to care how badly a man acts as long as he's very lucky in the looks department.

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          • vetk
            5 years ago

            Man.

            To me, whether it pays off or not doesn't matter. The point is that such " behaviour " is not accetable if you want to be called a man.

            Also, if the guy is very lucky in the looks department he probably won't need to act desperate.

            I'm attractive and if I make a move, I will only keep things going if the girl puts a little effort into it

            I've had girls play hard to get, or maybe they were just not interested, but some girls do play hard to get, and when they do that, they can just fuck off. And that's not because I don't have a good pair of balls, it's because she's not worth it, she has to do half the work.

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  • Slowlymovingfast
    5 years ago

    I read the title as "I hate fucking desperate guys"

    I was prepared for a whole different post.
    🤣

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  • IrishPotato
    5 years ago

    Don't treat anyone like crap regardless, will you? I dislike some people too. I just leave them alone because I'm not a malicious person.

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  • BagThatWasSwell
    5 years ago

    Bad people tend to have self-esteem issues anyway regardless if they are "hot", so Im not sure why you feel the need to treat anyone like crap.

    With that said, what makes you think the kind of girls who fall for these desperate losers are the only ones that exist? There are plenty who can see what you see, realize that a person is desperate so their phony compliments have no bearing. why focus on the negative?

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    • vetk
      5 years ago

      Please, it's a fact that most of the time it's us guys who make the first move. We have to be funny, we have to keep the conversation going, we have to initiate activities. What I'm saying is that if everyone was like me, girls wouldn't get any compliments and they would have to make the first move much more often than they do because sometimes I'd rather let a girl go than make the first move.

      And nobody is saying they feel the need to treat girls like crap, I said that I have treated hot women like crap because I didn't like them as a person and I didn't give a flying fuck that they were hot.
      I can be an asshole to a girl just like I can be an asshole to a guy because I don't treat girls any different, I'm not saying that I feel the need to be an asshole to girls.

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      • BagThatWasSwell
        5 years ago

        That's why I said "anyone" not just girls, why be an asshole at all? But whatever, it's your life.

        if someone has what you want of course you're gonna make the first move, I'm guessing you are early 20's in which case that "something" is pussy. generally women have a way lower sex drive than men so that's just how it is. More guys making the "first move" due to their natural drive.

        If you don't want to make the first move then don't, but if you feel like you're not getting girls it's more likely you don't have anything they want. Plenty of dudes have women making the first move on them too.

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        • Tealights
          5 years ago

          True. I made the first move on my boyfriend, I would have been a fool if I didnt.

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        • vetk
          5 years ago

          You are misunderstanding everything.

          I'm easily a 8 on the attractiveness scale and even when a girl does not initiate anything directly, she will try to create the right opportunities. I do not lack attention at all.

          It's nothing personal, no one is complaining about anything. I'm talking about the general trend.

          This whole post is about the ''sex power'' girls have... and how they have it because we give it to them. Men put women on a pedestal when they're just not special at all.

          Just because I don't struggle to get laid does not mean that I like how girls are put on a pedestal for no reason.

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          • Tealights
            5 years ago

            Basically, know what you're looking for, and learn how to get it. There's no need to become jaded and passive aggressive with strangers.

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            • vetk
              5 years ago

              No one is being passive aggressive and I already know how to get what I want.

              You're missing the point of the post. Complete misunderstanding.

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          • SWEET-RAVE-PARTY
            5 years ago

            Like it said, guys (especially in their 20s) tend to have a higher sex drive than girls, so there's always going to be "desperate men" to drive up the value of anyone with a vag. That's just how life works.

            I'm not sure why you feel the need to hate something that supposedly does not affect you in any way.

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            • Ellenna
              5 years ago

              Where did you get the idea that men have higher sex drives than women? That's a total myth

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            • Alichael
              5 years ago

              Women in their late 20s and 30s are hornier than men at any age, except maybe like 17 or 18 year olds since that's a guy's sexual peak. Women's peak is between like 27-35.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    I get where you're coming from, there are women out there that think they're levitating above the rest of us purely due to the fact that they're used to guys willing to do anything for them.

    Those guys are, well, desperate and need to have a bit of pride about them, and the thots need to take a chill pill with their ego.

    Best thing with these types of guys is to leave em be, let them be treated like simps.
    As for the thots, just don't give em what all the other guys are willing to do, which is attention.

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  • Mr_Jeremy_Brown
    5 years ago

    Yup, they are total losers.

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  • Tealights
    5 years ago

    Basically, you're a guy who keeps going for hoes. It's not a bad thing, because every guy does this at first, some even wife a hoe without realizing it until they are 7 years deep with 3 children by this chick they argue with all the time.

    Plus, it's not the guy's fault why hoes act they way they do. Women know that men are very visual creatures; many guys will always like what you see first before anything else, and we prey on that. You think every girl wearing tight spandex yoga pants with a thong or no panties will actually know any yoga poses or even exercise regularly? Nope. We wear tight, uncomfortable shit to make you look and admire us. Though there's nothing wrong with being a hoe/slut, cause some women are very sexual; the problem lies with the girls who want positive attention or the ability to cherry-pick through the men approaching them while dressing like a hoe.

    In the end, just look for a pretty woman in real people clothes and who carries herself well (i.e. not constantly looking around seeing if anyone noticed her yet) if you're searching for a real relationship. If you're looking for a quickie, just find the nearest hoe and make her laugh. There's no need to become jaded.

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